楊斌 -《我唔識拍拖》
詞/曲:三爺 編:沒有資料 唱:楊斌
再度與她尋覓自由479Please respect copyright.PENANAMtZ7dWaued
發現我心新的傷口479Please respect copyright.PENANAR7BadcHFXA
怕你仍內疚 我衷心的禱告479Please respect copyright.PENANAmePvq4AKM6
苦戀的一生 偏要自渡下半生
是我未夠好總參不透479Please respect copyright.PENANAmzAKAqkTz9
換轉別個他你怎捨得他走479Please respect copyright.PENANAtLcXUpwMP2
錯又犯錯 竟可將他擁抱479Please respect copyright.PENANAFp6ofVa7qJ
不想懂太多 偏愛你沒法拖
*對不起 我又叫座479Please respect copyright.PENANAjQ5Nbgg0tu
請原諒我這次衝動479Please respect copyright.PENANAGbP4QbJrkn
這顆心 最後愛過479Please respect copyright.PENANAy74Msvm2Rj
即使得不到你 唯有衷心的說句
我唔識拍拖 分開好過479Please respect copyright.PENANAiD0FJn8RjL
來來回回怎麼只得一個我479Please respect copyright.PENANA2DcjE302NU
回望過去你背著我與他相愛 479Please respect copyright.PENANAKoNvxaJZPl
即使粉身碎骨 亦要愛你沒法躲
拍拖 不知怎過479Please respect copyright.PENANAs4qK8EPLu7
沉沉迷迷怎麼分不清哪個是我479Please respect copyright.PENANAPtcJU5DyEI
踏破了雙腳 始終得不到你479Please respect copyright.PENANAEafZ1tulEO
直到最後至清楚*
原來是我錯
重唱*
以往讓你傷害我 拋不低 是真心過479Please respect copyright.PENANACwmBuoHqqb
痛切心扉離開我 直覺告訴我結果
我唔識拍拖 分開好過479Please respect copyright.PENANAp212bfo7eE
來來回回怎麼只得一個我479Please respect copyright.PENANAjqX442asaa
踏破了雙腳 始終得不到你479Please respect copyright.PENANAEDn3LcZ4r3
直到最後至清楚 原來是我錯
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「以下是劇場版對白,下方的括號內容為自翻的書面語。」
男:點解要咁對我啊?479Please respect copyright.PENANAtqaHBduaWY
(為甚麼要這樣對待我啊?)479Please respect copyright.PENANAhMTv0hFNcI
女:我點解唔可以咁對你啊?479Please respect copyright.PENANAuWPrSECTIf
(我為甚麼不可以這樣對待你啊?)479Please respect copyright.PENANAcWoVmvO8pP
男:你有冇當過我係你男朋友啊?479Please respect copyright.PENANAxqIkST6ktD
(你有沒有把我當作是你的男朋友啊?)479Please respect copyright.PENANAXBZOAbFjak
女:咁你呢?479Please respect copyright.PENANAdJ8c0gx7sT
(那你呢?)479Please respect copyright.PENANA2QexVnHX2u
你成日話愛我,但你識咗我咁耐,479Please respect copyright.PENANA3gobv4qDd0
(你老在說愛我,但你認識我那麼久了,)479Please respect copyright.PENANAIO1kSCpBVY
有冇陪過我睇過一齣戲?479Please respect copyright.PENANAUrG7788Ifo
(有沒有陪我看過一場電影?)479Please respect copyright.PENANAkLFrfBFzoM
有無同我行過一次街?479Please respect copyright.PENANAahqlcM5Eei
(有沒有陪逛過一次街?)479Please respect copyright.PENANAshDYV8oGfR
我有無要求過你啲乜呀?479Please respect copyright.PENANAQqMlxrKeZX
(我有對你要求過甚麼嗎?)
女:你想講,喱啲就係你既拍拖方式吖嘛。479Please respect copyright.PENANAiMNUPXlWQ7
(你想說,這就是你的交往方式吧。)479Please respect copyright.PENANA88M7j40mPm
夠喇!我受夠喇!479Please respect copyright.PENANAdDVOC1DxhU
(好了!我受不了啦!)479Please respect copyright.PENANAic8wYKhiId
睇嚟,你真係要學下點拍拖囉!479Please respect copyright.PENANA0ZB9BuQ00v
(看來,你真的要學一下要怎樣去與人交往!)479Please respect copyright.PENANAv9KCbyHWfl
你再咁落去嘅話,一世都搵唔到女朋友㗎!479Please respect copyright.PENANAmwcB2eRZcm
(你再這樣下去的話,一生都找不到女朋友的!)479Please respect copyright.PENANAFbkh4M1xAx
男:我哋一齊咁多年喇,479Please respect copyright.PENANAgHrEOZgYrK
(我們一起這麼多年了,)479Please respect copyright.PENANAPzdoGLRyJU
你唔係唔知我係點架!479Please respect copyright.PENANAUYUSbEMF4O
(你不是不知道我是怎麼樣的人!)479Please respect copyright.PENANA5HNmXvJM1c
我就算幾忙都好,479Please respect copyright.PENANAsmdmErByiR
(我就算多忙也好,)479Please respect copyright.PENANAdGK8r2v545
我個心都係喺你嗰度㗎!479Please respect copyright.PENANASVzkiPlgGJ
(我的心都是在你那邊的!)479Please respect copyright.PENANAmchsxBg0Z2
你粒聲都唔出就背住我同第二個一齊,479Please respect copyright.PENANAXmEU0uQFkd
(你一聲不哼就背住我跟別人在一起,)479Please respect copyright.PENANAkEGK9MvJWm
你有無諗過我感受呀?479Please respect copyright.PENANAIqD9iDnGKo
(你有想過我的感受嗎?)479Please respect copyright.PENANAnbX9HVbyeV
女:係啊,我哋一齊已經好多年,479Please respect copyright.PENANA6uDsMR8hs7
(對啊,我們一起已經很多年,)479Please respect copyright.PENANARg4D6FBKYO
咁多年以嚟,我啲Firend陪我仲多過你陪我,479Please respect copyright.PENANAYnaWrHdSrY
(這麼多年來,我的朋友陪我還比你陪我多,)479Please respect copyright.PENANA0JTJyiw9p0
有你咁做男朋友嘅咩?479Please respect copyright.PENANAjvDH7zY8u4
(有你這樣當男朋友的嗎?)
女:女人到底要嘅係乜野,你究竟知唔知啊?479Please respect copyright.PENANAgVY3N9pnll
(女人到底要的是甚麼,你究竟知道嗎?)479Please respect copyright.PENANAthjLV2emnC
你咁叫拍拖咩?479Please respect copyright.PENANArriz1fLdCh
(你這樣也叫交往嗎?)479Please respect copyright.PENANAOrEnkUV2f6
男:但我……我咁辛苦係為咗乜嘢啊?479Please respect copyright.PENANAzUhce8TsGv
(但我……我那麼辛苦是為了甚麼啊?)479Please respect copyright.PENANAB6paFYPhpR
我係為咗我地以後可以過得更加舒服啲咋!479Please respect copyright.PENANAZhMirvbFT7
(我是為了我們以後可以過得更加舒服一點而已!)479Please respect copyright.PENANAitAPhypMEz
你以為我唔辛苦咩?!479Please respect copyright.PENANAY7n8d4wS7z
(你以為我不辛苦嗎?!)479Please respect copyright.PENANAo2kl1tmli9
你以為我……479Please respect copyright.PENANAOUFw8KyJFc
女:夠喇!你唔駛再講咁多喇!479Please respect copyright.PENANAdTAXTV9rX7
(行啦!你不用再講那麼多啦!)479Please respect copyright.PENANAGIEFi1EdN3
我地分手啦。479Please respect copyright.PENANA8uXKvcphlr
(我們分手吧。)479Please respect copyright.PENANA2WNDmxlrWS
男:分手?!好啊!479Please respect copyright.PENANAlnyPxpeWCM
既然你覺得咁委屈,我亦都唔想勉強你!479Please respect copyright.PENANAT7TJYb5FNw
(既然你覺得是那麼委屈,我亦不想勉強你!)
女:或者,分手對大家嚟講都係一種解脫;479Please respect copyright.PENANAhW4mtQSush
(或者,分手對我們來說都是一種解脫;)479Please respect copyright.PENANAlxFnX9uFDh
或者我唔係一直咁愛你嘅話,479Please respect copyright.PENANAsZmGzUc0Pp
(或者我不是一直那麼愛你的話,)479Please respect copyright.PENANArUuzGHExBW
我根本唔會忍受咁耐。479Please respect copyright.PENANAD8FmgcwiU7
(我根本就不會忍受那麼久。)479Please respect copyright.PENANActEA6tgiAY
又或者……479Please respect copyright.PENANAolxsbwsRiX
女人就係咁優柔寡斷㗎啦。479Please respect copyright.PENANAmtY7kxRGSC
(女人就是這樣優柔寡斷的吧。)479Please respect copyright.PENANAbtT36bMSMo
世界上邊有咁多或者吖。479Please respect copyright.PENANAqgkEaQ3hpR
(世界上哪有那麼多或者。)479Please respect copyright.PENANArwKV4Z6pKW
女人其實好簡單;479Please respect copyright.PENANAUe9bfwMkqU
(女人其實很簡單;)479Please respect copyright.PENANAYIxXKPExBm
佢只係想搵一個能夠依靠嘅人,能夠比幸福佢嘅人。479Please respect copyright.PENANAXAUa7DqrUW
(她只是想找一個能夠依靠的人,能夠給她幸福的人。)479Please respect copyright.PENANA5DFQjVJBKj
其實女人,根本就係自私嘅。479Please respect copyright.PENANAvsJm6UJYc8
(其實女人,根本就是自私的。)479Please respect copyright.PENANAtjd9bliYLL
如果某一日,有一個女人要離開你,479Please respect copyright.PENANAmC6UgtE1jh
你只能夠反省下,究竟,你係咪真係唔識拍拖。479Please respect copyright.PENANALn1rssBp0j
(你只能夠反省一下,到底,你是不是真的不懂得與人交往。)
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點滴:
我第一次聽到這首歌,大概是在O七年的年初,於某間的士高內;479Please respect copyright.PENANAY2fG32zWuv
當時聽到的是這首歌混音版。
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楊斌,是一位在廣州的電台裏工作的其中一位交通節目主持。
那個時候,這首歌很紅,幾乎每間的士高和酒吧都在不斷重播;479Please respect copyright.PENANAMZbyiV8G0c
而分享的這個版本,是劇場版,加入兩者的對白後使其更帶感,讓人更能投入歌詞,收錄於他O八年的一張專輯內。
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歌名中的「唔識」,是粵語的白話,意思解作:不懂、不知道、不認識;479Please respect copyright.PENANAdcs4rJPein
而「拍拖」,即是:交往、在一起;479Please respect copyright.PENANAwlhFj6mDKE
「我唔識拍拖」,顧名思義就是「我不懂得與人交往」。
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我所理解的「拍拖」,是一門高深的學問;479Please respect copyright.PENANABokF2K2Ghi
幻想與現實,兩者的世界總是差天共地。
於兩個人的愛情中,比較愛對方的一方,總會處於「下風」;479Please respect copyright.PENANAKuyDwPETk8
「下風」的人,會時常擔驚受怕、疑神疑鬼,總是對自己沒自信,還會捕風捉影。
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粗心的人,往往只會看表面,卻忽略了自己可能早已在暗地裏不斷傷害著對方都不知道,一切彷彿理所當然;479Please respect copyright.PENANA63XDxR7spP
只要對方不說出口,他就不會察覺得到對方其實是在忍耐,因為他根本就是無意識的。
當對方超過了自己容忍的界限時,往往這段關係便會出現裂痕;479Please respect copyright.PENANAaXA4GepxIe
直到對方認為不能或不想再忍受下去,信心崩塌、瓦解,終於,必須選擇放棄之時,那粗心的人就只會覺得莫名其妙:「我們不是好好的嗎?為甚麼如此突然的說要離開我?」
兩性關係中,溝通相當重要。
粗心者慣性的理所當然,與承受方的默然忍受亦同樣不對;479Please respect copyright.PENANAUalnf4s98k
想要該段關係得以持久,最根本的就是需要互相的體諒對方。
無論是喜抑或是惡的事情,也一定要向對方說清楚,兩者都不能理解對方的話,同床異夢,其實比起吵架還可怕。
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「拍拖」是需要雙方同時來共同維繫的;479Please respect copyright.PENANAcjUXiwqWpM
過多的控訴、任性,每天也日吵夜鬧,亦只會令對方生厭。
雙方都不該是上司與下屬的關係,愛情應該是平等的,能達到平衡,才是最好的;479Please respect copyright.PENANABeNYkBTUo3
適度的包容、信心,還有溝通,這些正正就是情愛中最重要的相處之道。
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人性中蘊藏著貪得無厭、變本加厲的惡念,好勝心總會使人試圖去挑戰別人的底線。
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可惜,除非兩人都是平易近人、毫無脾氣的個性,對方做任何事都無所謂,看得很開;479Please respect copyright.PENANALmi57COJiA
不然,磨擦總是少不免的,皆因大家的習慣與成長背景都不一樣。
也要取其支點,需要彼此的互相包容才能支撐得到;479Please respect copyright.PENANAPVFTyrfb1y
否則,翹翹板就只會一面倒,有天終究會垮下。
今天,你遷就我,明天,我忍讓你;479Please respect copyright.PENANAW7uceExbXE
那樣就是最理想的關係了。
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只是,世事永遠都是當局者迷;479Please respect copyright.PENANAdE0agYSfKP
要怨恨對方前,不妨先去檢討一下自己,想深一些,其實對方並沒有欠你的。
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