I like to think I have quite the low standards. My taste in men has never been that descriptive or specific or demanding. This will be no excuse for me to attack girls with more to say in this topic. It is perfectly within their right and reason to pick the partner they so choose by whichever standards they wish to set. I do not dislike the idea of a girl waiting for her booktok hero to walk in blazing from from battle, and confess on her living room with tears begging for her attention. Honestly, this may be an instance of personal double standard because the idea of a man expecting anything infuriates me. It is within my liberal framework to encourage people on their ability to choose. Of course, I believe men ought to be free to choose. But for some reason, I do not offer them the luxury to indulge in fantasy. Perhaps this is toxic I ought to explore it. Frankly, I believe it is because of my image of a man. When I imagine a man, I imagine someone cocky, slightly narcissistic but not so much to show it, just enough to ignore calls for empathy. Someone like that expecting to be begged sounds like a god complex realized. Whereas my image of a woman expecting the same treatement is much more tolerant. To yearn is to earn after all. Nevertheless i oppose the involuntary assignment of gender roles. No man should be obliged to earn if he does not want to and no woman should be obliged to wait patientely for a man if she does not want to. Liberty means abolishment of social regulations that limit our freedom. A twink and a masc mommy? YESS. A trad husband and wife? As long as both are happy then YESS. This is not a show of judgement on my part. This is my opinion on the moral value of modern relationships. My issue with the liberal principality is that it feels disconnected from reality. Of course I want men to be more transparent and connected to their femininity. They are not. Of course I want to have a fluid image of a man, of someone who blushes when approached like a shy maiden, of someone with equal needs for affirmation and attention. But my image is based on the reality I experience not this utopia. I digress. The first idea I aimed to explain is how little I expect from a man to date. If he is interesting and safe, sure yeah. If he also attracts me, HELL YEAH! That is it. Why then do I struggle so much to find such a man? Well maybe you can tell me...
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