If only Dad could be here...439Please respect copyright.PENANAfu7ai7JHoI
By Edith Patterson Hill, Rockford, Illinois439Please respect copyright.PENANAxL2wrK6RWB
My father was a keen observer of human nature. 439Please respect copyright.PENANAqnNk2IT8e4
Within seconds of meeting someone, he could summarize their 439Please respect copyright.PENANAKzzjAlrCm7
strengths and weaknesses. It was always a challenge to see if any of my ,439Please respect copyright.PENANAObUOESU30F
boyfriends would pass the paternity test. No one did. Dad was always right - they didn't pass my test either. When Father died, I wondered how to figure it out myself. Then Jack arrived. He was different than any other man I had met. He could sit at the piano bench with my mother for , hours and discuss , obscure composers. My brother Rick loudly announced to that Jack was no turkey like the other boys I brought home. My sister Denise used to laugh with her about the old 439Please respect copyright.PENANAnHb50ppgG2
Danny Kaye movies. And Jack was great with my mentally challenged brother 439Please respect copyright.PENANAi3P5ai2wXD
Chuck. At one point, Chuck put his greasy hands, fresh off a cheeseburger, on 439Please respect copyright.PENANACTVc2Ts7IP
Jack's shoulders, kissed his cheek with ketchup-coated lips, and called him by the wrong name, exclaiming, "Ah, Jeff, I love ya. !" Jack didn't miss it. you, George!" 439Please respect copyright.PENANAplNQ4y3l46
Jack passed my family test. What about Dad? Then came the weekend of my mother's birthday. Jack came from his home in Milwaukee to Chicago. On the day he had to drive, I got a call: "Don't worry," he said, "but I was in an accident." His car had suspended; when he stopped, another car hit. "I'm fine, but you have to come to me." Thank God she's fine, I thought as I drove to Milwaukee. When we got there, we rushed to flower shop to get something for mom. "What about gardenias?" Jack said showing a beautiful white bodice. 439Please respect copyright.PENANAnskt7ryrxD
"You never see them this time of year," I said. Flower shop put a corsage in a box.439Please respect copyright.PENANAeqjI6JK6qC
During the trip, Jack was unusually calm. "Are you 439Please respect copyright.PENANA7vjO2Y9nuH
right?" I asked. We drove to my mother's street. 439Please respect copyright.PENANAABi6dxPdPv
"I've been thinking a lot," he said. "I might be in the 439Please respect copyright.PENANA7IFCGqPXH6
movement." Moving? When did he tell me that? When did he pack ? 439Please respect copyright.PENANAST82bGNe1H
Then he added: "Moreover, to you." I almost put the car on the pavement. "What?" I asked. "I think we should get married," he said. He told me that he was planning a great restaurant, but after 's accident, he decided to do it now. "Yes," I whispered 439Please respect copyright.PENANAsf4rAKn0IT
. We both sat speechless, tears streaming down our cheeks, unable to speak. I have never felt such a tender moment. If only Dad was here to give the final approval. 439Please respect copyright.PENANAzeRzuyuwE5
"Oh, let's just go in," Jack said with a laugh. We got out of the car and he walked down the driveway carrying the Corsa. My mother opened the door. "Happy birthday!" we shouted. Jack pushed the box towards him. He opened it. 439Please respect copyright.PENANAXM94Ysa2cU
Suddenly his eyes filled with tears. Jack and I looked at each other . "Mom, what's wrong?" I asked. "I'm sorry," she said, wiping her eyes. "This is only the 439Please respect copyright.PENANAikM5o4nnjJ
th gardenia corsilla I have ever received. I received years ago, long before I had children." "By whom?" I asked. "Your father," said mother. "He gave me one right before # when we got engaged." My eyes locked on Jack as I blinked back 439Please respect copyright.PENANANrU0nObzn4
tears. Dad's test? I knew Jack had passed.439Please respect copyright.PENANAbkFpHicoUe