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「潮語」是指潮流用語，249Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡeEfoVX4Aaj
每個年代都會有不同特色的潮語。249Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡQHUzqx5bGj
而這年代具代表性的潮語莫過於「屈機」﹑「十卜」等，249Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡp3Eg9hfIre
由網絡衍生出來，夾雜一點「火星文」味道的潮語。249Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡGMBgnpBGvr
這些帶點玩樂性質的潮語卻在近年開始變質，249Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡHm8IcPlNsr
漸漸出現一堆帶有諷刺性及侮辱性的潮語，249Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡhcZxtpUDj6
例如「港女」﹑「剩女」﹑「宅男」﹑「90後」等等。249Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡa3lrdIdLVd
這些原本語調中性的名詞，249Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡa6SBmhw1O4
為什麼後來會變成一種負面的標籤呢？
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「港女」換言之是香港女性，249Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡa2Yma5BYJC
而「90後」即是1990年後出生的人，249Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡEY6DiBT39h
明明只是一個中立的簡稱。249Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡrw5CiKbrzV
但現今世代的「港女」卻泛指有公主病﹑拜金的女生，249Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡPZVdbpmJIi
而「90後」就毫無理由地等同於249Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡKv46q2Ifnm
工作不認真﹑沒責任心的一群，249Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡRHMAOQVrpN
其實我每次聽到都覺得匪夷所思，249Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡQn0SK5rTWT
即若果我是出生於1990年之後的香港女性居民，249Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ1Qr8QWOoGs
所以我一出世，249Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡHyOihMS2zD
不，未出世就已注定249Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡMaxEph5UAv
是有公主病﹑拜金﹑工作不認真﹑沒責任心的人？249Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡVKRJPstRbd
那麼世上人人都是風水師，249Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡgCVu4CLkrE
人人都懂得用生辰八字來睇相了。
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聽說是這些族群的大多數有這些特徵，249Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡrpSiIZAz8P
所以就用以統稱。249Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡGk7vGWJpL9
我很好奇，發起這些統稱的人，249Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡVJwrVxINzw
是否已經見過所有香港女子，249Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡHdqDB6vYQi
或者所有出生於90年代後的人？249Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡP1WVanqMf5
所謂大多數，即最少是多於一半。249Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡHzvTYS5R59
而性格特質這種東西，249Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡHYywl0SIPe
是要相處過才會見識到。249Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡMWtpywf8Vn
所謂見識，不只是見過，249Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡBxyuYbNLKz
還要認識和體會。249Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡLaoZFr6Rvn
我總不相信有人一生認識過100萬個香港女生。
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然而就因為其輕率的一聲「港女」，249Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡS6RsiuCGqj
及後所有香港女性都像被世人用「家嫂」的眼光去審視：249Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡMNfXJRmVKn
夏天穿背心短褲？港女。249Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡWRFejEt9gN
要男朋友買了超過一千蚊的禮物？港女。249Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ3Xy0dSyuU2
約會遲到？港女。249Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡE4rCmk4aqw
同樣地，呻一呻辛苦，工作不認真，任性叛逆，249Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡusLlccMi70
你就是沒責任心，自私易放棄的90後。
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試問一下，249Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡgquT0rM2mh
社會上除了老闆，誰上班是不辛苦？249Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡqLDPMqlBp7
不幸遇上魔頭上司，簡直是痛苦。249Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ39gZNJBWx2
呻一呻有何稀奇？249Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡdcRwaIRfQv
上世代的人從來沒呻過？我聽過創自1976年的「半斤八兩」，249Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡFFwKjweTaw
可憐一班「90後」尚未出世呢。249Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ9mbpVuXTdi
工作不認真？249Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡPICxr48nmN
我相信不少在職人士一定見識過249Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡrTESfA22GY
只說不做﹑恃老賣老的「老屎忽」。249Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡHqtthH2t5X
世上當真只有90年後出生的人先會呻？249Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ6ADGJjol7P
先會推卸責任？249Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ6KVwyYJFXt
叛逆任性，亦真的只出現在「90後」身上嗎?249Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡMJqTaBTc8C
撫心自問，249Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ7dgbRlQ0np
世界上又是不是只有香港女性才會約會遲到，249Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡhbRLRRFJuY
收超過一千蚊的禮物？
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既是如此，為什麼獨獨只有這些族群才會被惡意標籤？249Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡqV3zkQ7uZp
所有所謂特徵，明明會出現在不同族群和年代的人身上，249Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡKet5rM4pLP
但現在獨獨只有這一群會被規範會被矯枉過正，249Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡqPvlNoNQ3k
再也不敢隨便呻隨便收禮物，249Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡGRu3B3TYYy
只因他們已經被標籤。249Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡCLOEvDpqAw
就像被一條充滿荊棘的橡皮圈緊緊绑著，249Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡLcl0GVg5xh
又像在走一條窄如獨木橋又難行的石春路，249Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ5P9L43BaQm
就怕稍稍走錯一步都會被世人指點﹑唾罵。 249Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡqkB0P1S4MI
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被標籤的族群249Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡuhk7xurg7x
如今只能因大眾的誤解而生活在峡窄的規範中。249Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡwZFwrwyucY
然而，以我所知，249Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡYRsQeyp5Sm
現今90後或香港出世的女性都不是複製人，249Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡheVoXTbVVe
所以每個人都還是獨立的個體，249Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡYPWIEOZuP9
行為﹑性格﹑特色都獨一無二，249Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡlYmXyvB8gc
不至於所有／大多數這些族群的人249Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡTHYTc4VtpF
就一定／必然會出現這些特徵。249Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡCGUWLjwHTQ
事實上，249Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡFNHportWGr
是否「90前」﹑「美女」（美國女性）﹑「中女」（中國女性）249Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡE73sU5tkrg
真的從來沒有出現過被標籤族群所做的行為呢？
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其實，峽窄的生活方式，是源於膚淺的眼光。249Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ3j5FeBvPjj
我真心希望這些讓人心生壓力的標籤效應以後能夠慢慢淡化，249Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡZ9oHWUgw8n
希望大家能客觀﹑獨立的看待每一個人。249Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡy8ehi5oqtN
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小幸子Yukiko249Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡZQdaCSOLlW
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