楊斌 -《我唔識拍拖》
詞/曲:三爺 編:沒有資料 唱:楊斌
再度與她尋覓自由675Please respect copyright.PENANAUwTs6H8YiO
發現我心新的傷口675Please respect copyright.PENANAFCFtLN7YoP
怕你仍內疚 我衷心的禱告675Please respect copyright.PENANAXr9ZT88llx
苦戀的一生 偏要自渡下半生
是我未夠好總參不透675Please respect copyright.PENANAzWrerWiWaX
換轉別個他你怎捨得他走675Please respect copyright.PENANABYyX04YiFB
錯又犯錯 竟可將他擁抱675Please respect copyright.PENANAPrrvoRN3xn
不想懂太多 偏愛你沒法拖
*對不起 我又叫座675Please respect copyright.PENANAZ1DG1ThI7c
請原諒我這次衝動675Please respect copyright.PENANAaMasTeCYKV
這顆心 最後愛過675Please respect copyright.PENANAu2B3NHLuDt
即使得不到你 唯有衷心的說句
我唔識拍拖 分開好過675Please respect copyright.PENANAAH4ND5EYd2
來來回回怎麼只得一個我675Please respect copyright.PENANAY5xspjdP4t
回望過去你背著我與他相愛 675Please respect copyright.PENANAwr6d4pjMM4
即使粉身碎骨 亦要愛你沒法躲
拍拖 不知怎過675Please respect copyright.PENANAz2mWhHWK1A
沉沉迷迷怎麼分不清哪個是我675Please respect copyright.PENANAOVpxZA4REx
踏破了雙腳 始終得不到你675Please respect copyright.PENANAgbcFWBlMZq
直到最後至清楚*
原來是我錯
重唱*
以往讓你傷害我 拋不低 是真心過675Please respect copyright.PENANAxU5hnDtlTN
痛切心扉離開我 直覺告訴我結果
我唔識拍拖 分開好過675Please respect copyright.PENANAjQhq9D7AYU
來來回回怎麼只得一個我675Please respect copyright.PENANAiu71ZUl9uh
踏破了雙腳 始終得不到你675Please respect copyright.PENANA90oVYGhkt5
直到最後至清楚 原來是我錯
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「以下是劇場版對白,下方的括號內容為自翻的書面語。」
男:點解要咁對我啊?675Please respect copyright.PENANAABlHNOby4B
(為甚麼要這樣對待我啊?)675Please respect copyright.PENANAQbsKdtdW9f
女:我點解唔可以咁對你啊?675Please respect copyright.PENANAhHOyriolfL
(我為甚麼不可以這樣對待你啊?)675Please respect copyright.PENANAprucY8vKaK
男:你有冇當過我係你男朋友啊?675Please respect copyright.PENANAxwIaKfByGb
(你有沒有把我當作是你的男朋友啊?)675Please respect copyright.PENANAeQlUQidAB6
女:咁你呢?675Please respect copyright.PENANAyg8EuUhQbt
(那你呢?)675Please respect copyright.PENANAddNe0T1SuE
你成日話愛我,但你識咗我咁耐,675Please respect copyright.PENANAcSHaOl0KJg
(你老在說愛我,但你認識我那麼久了,)675Please respect copyright.PENANAn2HuatcwKT
有冇陪過我睇過一齣戲?675Please respect copyright.PENANAgKbkR8T2aP
(有沒有陪我看過一場電影?)675Please respect copyright.PENANAVPMKwOGtzz
有無同我行過一次街?675Please respect copyright.PENANAk3Y1pQO4do
(有沒有陪逛過一次街?)675Please respect copyright.PENANA82Y7KzJkQs
我有無要求過你啲乜呀?675Please respect copyright.PENANAAueCPLW0fF
(我有對你要求過甚麼嗎?)
女:你想講,喱啲就係你既拍拖方式吖嘛。675Please respect copyright.PENANAzhG3xJ2G93
(你想說,這就是你的交往方式吧。)675Please respect copyright.PENANAq2kA3jh4JM
夠喇!我受夠喇!675Please respect copyright.PENANAdokvQzkZVa
(好了!我受不了啦!)675Please respect copyright.PENANAg5Y3qbZ5Zw
睇嚟,你真係要學下點拍拖囉!675Please respect copyright.PENANAWxnxs6iO8C
(看來,你真的要學一下要怎樣去與人交往!)675Please respect copyright.PENANAyhFEjLDrES
你再咁落去嘅話,一世都搵唔到女朋友㗎!675Please respect copyright.PENANAzQcZ1oRp2w
(你再這樣下去的話,一生都找不到女朋友的!)675Please respect copyright.PENANAxEVfky3Agz
男:我哋一齊咁多年喇,675Please respect copyright.PENANALIBNGUh1Cs
(我們一起這麼多年了,)675Please respect copyright.PENANAsSyqBZWTJ4
你唔係唔知我係點架!675Please respect copyright.PENANAlAdHrRP9hu
(你不是不知道我是怎麼樣的人!)675Please respect copyright.PENANAfKEDViYBQv
我就算幾忙都好,675Please respect copyright.PENANAITSylIZFEE
(我就算多忙也好,)675Please respect copyright.PENANA4W6SIQi5i3
我個心都係喺你嗰度㗎!675Please respect copyright.PENANApgQXsZfQzy
(我的心都是在你那邊的!)675Please respect copyright.PENANA1oOP2xtPEb
你粒聲都唔出就背住我同第二個一齊,675Please respect copyright.PENANAQPW8W7U20f
(你一聲不哼就背住我跟別人在一起,)675Please respect copyright.PENANAyZ9ipzLsFb
你有無諗過我感受呀?675Please respect copyright.PENANAyH3J0FElOU
(你有想過我的感受嗎?)675Please respect copyright.PENANACjIBlX5cz3
女:係啊,我哋一齊已經好多年,675Please respect copyright.PENANAuJGNOm8W30
(對啊,我們一起已經很多年,)675Please respect copyright.PENANAjY7WciOoOc
咁多年以嚟,我啲Firend陪我仲多過你陪我,675Please respect copyright.PENANAgZP6ZsX1ok
(這麼多年來,我的朋友陪我還比你陪我多,)675Please respect copyright.PENANAamgABNBdF4
有你咁做男朋友嘅咩?675Please respect copyright.PENANAnqzJMIvzCY
(有你這樣當男朋友的嗎?)
女:女人到底要嘅係乜野,你究竟知唔知啊?675Please respect copyright.PENANAxBxLdeb9CN
(女人到底要的是甚麼,你究竟知道嗎?)675Please respect copyright.PENANA4kSg2RCM62
你咁叫拍拖咩?675Please respect copyright.PENANAYPTMZm11jL
(你這樣也叫交往嗎?)675Please respect copyright.PENANAYgeuWHmpTk
男:但我……我咁辛苦係為咗乜嘢啊?675Please respect copyright.PENANADkiG9vyWy6
(但我……我那麼辛苦是為了甚麼啊?)675Please respect copyright.PENANAVYOL7yipBg
我係為咗我地以後可以過得更加舒服啲咋!675Please respect copyright.PENANAnYPbLr02dB
(我是為了我們以後可以過得更加舒服一點而已!)675Please respect copyright.PENANATNO2JgmSSi
你以為我唔辛苦咩?!675Please respect copyright.PENANAkxtRHANs2v
(你以為我不辛苦嗎?!)675Please respect copyright.PENANA30P2fTUPw3
你以為我……675Please respect copyright.PENANAmSyMzkcsCt
女:夠喇!你唔駛再講咁多喇!675Please respect copyright.PENANAKB9BDjb85K
(行啦!你不用再講那麼多啦!)675Please respect copyright.PENANA6zfpcBb85p
我地分手啦。675Please respect copyright.PENANAETNaDTsPNA
(我們分手吧。)675Please respect copyright.PENANAXjZOv7DOLS
男:分手?!好啊!675Please respect copyright.PENANA8a9lDYDWB9
既然你覺得咁委屈,我亦都唔想勉強你!675Please respect copyright.PENANANO0jfnncPd
(既然你覺得是那麼委屈,我亦不想勉強你!)
女:或者,分手對大家嚟講都係一種解脫;675Please respect copyright.PENANAKKAkGX09iB
(或者,分手對我們來說都是一種解脫;)675Please respect copyright.PENANAphqQqhoFsq
或者我唔係一直咁愛你嘅話,675Please respect copyright.PENANANjT30qiBwn
(或者我不是一直那麼愛你的話,)675Please respect copyright.PENANAn8pKboYBBe
我根本唔會忍受咁耐。675Please respect copyright.PENANA4ptJ3yOlgj
(我根本就不會忍受那麼久。)675Please respect copyright.PENANAeK2Xv6JIFP
又或者……675Please respect copyright.PENANAopfFvZodYL
女人就係咁優柔寡斷㗎啦。675Please respect copyright.PENANACvRBFJMwp2
(女人就是這樣優柔寡斷的吧。)675Please respect copyright.PENANAOBFUcpkjq2
世界上邊有咁多或者吖。675Please respect copyright.PENANAVNOoC7IUig
(世界上哪有那麼多或者。)675Please respect copyright.PENANA7ZcLLCOPbi
女人其實好簡單;675Please respect copyright.PENANAFNMxdoTeRx
(女人其實很簡單;)675Please respect copyright.PENANALITKEhRm3D
佢只係想搵一個能夠依靠嘅人,能夠比幸福佢嘅人。675Please respect copyright.PENANAjAgTuNZXwC
(她只是想找一個能夠依靠的人,能夠給她幸福的人。)675Please respect copyright.PENANAyFstOOfpF3
其實女人,根本就係自私嘅。675Please respect copyright.PENANAiMR7ezgRmh
(其實女人,根本就是自私的。)675Please respect copyright.PENANAcGBj5JnWop
如果某一日,有一個女人要離開你,675Please respect copyright.PENANAPvz12IGzPs
你只能夠反省下,究竟,你係咪真係唔識拍拖。675Please respect copyright.PENANAAg2UzR6r9L
(你只能夠反省一下,到底,你是不是真的不懂得與人交往。)
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點滴:
我第一次聽到這首歌,大概是在O七年的年初,於某間的士高內;675Please respect copyright.PENANAcBCFQHpSJX
當時聽到的是這首歌混音版。
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楊斌,是一位在廣州的電台裏工作的其中一位交通節目主持。
那個時候,這首歌很紅,幾乎每間的士高和酒吧都在不斷重播;675Please respect copyright.PENANAFFimV6tGLy
而分享的這個版本,是劇場版,加入兩者的對白後使其更帶感,讓人更能投入歌詞,收錄於他O八年的一張專輯內。
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歌名中的「唔識」,是粵語的白話,意思解作:不懂、不知道、不認識;675Please respect copyright.PENANASaxAE1fZek
而「拍拖」,即是:交往、在一起;675Please respect copyright.PENANAJyTBT02zw2
「我唔識拍拖」,顧名思義就是「我不懂得與人交往」。
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我所理解的「拍拖」,是一門高深的學問;675Please respect copyright.PENANA4k8JrW4McN
幻想與現實,兩者的世界總是差天共地。
於兩個人的愛情中,比較愛對方的一方,總會處於「下風」;675Please respect copyright.PENANAuqwUhNorjG
「下風」的人,會時常擔驚受怕、疑神疑鬼,總是對自己沒自信,還會捕風捉影。
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粗心的人,往往只會看表面,卻忽略了自己可能早已在暗地裏不斷傷害著對方都不知道,一切彷彿理所當然;675Please respect copyright.PENANA1Pb4U00SDW
只要對方不說出口,他就不會察覺得到對方其實是在忍耐,因為他根本就是無意識的。
當對方超過了自己容忍的界限時,往往這段關係便會出現裂痕;675Please respect copyright.PENANAASlde0cxTg
直到對方認為不能或不想再忍受下去,信心崩塌、瓦解,終於,必須選擇放棄之時,那粗心的人就只會覺得莫名其妙:「我們不是好好的嗎?為甚麼如此突然的說要離開我?」
兩性關係中,溝通相當重要。
粗心者慣性的理所當然,與承受方的默然忍受亦同樣不對;675Please respect copyright.PENANAQOKWKyHAA9
想要該段關係得以持久,最根本的就是需要互相的體諒對方。
無論是喜抑或是惡的事情,也一定要向對方說清楚,兩者都不能理解對方的話,同床異夢,其實比起吵架還可怕。
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「拍拖」是需要雙方同時來共同維繫的;675Please respect copyright.PENANAdxyRDog4XK
過多的控訴、任性,每天也日吵夜鬧,亦只會令對方生厭。
雙方都不該是上司與下屬的關係,愛情應該是平等的,能達到平衡,才是最好的;675Please respect copyright.PENANAHz5ThfOSyK
適度的包容、信心,還有溝通,這些正正就是情愛中最重要的相處之道。
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人性中蘊藏著貪得無厭、變本加厲的惡念,好勝心總會使人試圖去挑戰別人的底線。
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可惜,除非兩人都是平易近人、毫無脾氣的個性,對方做任何事都無所謂,看得很開;675Please respect copyright.PENANA8so2rDDjxe
不然,磨擦總是少不免的,皆因大家的習慣與成長背景都不一樣。
也要取其支點,需要彼此的互相包容才能支撐得到;675Please respect copyright.PENANAuFkWCjF9yQ
否則,翹翹板就只會一面倒,有天終究會垮下。
今天,你遷就我,明天,我忍讓你;675Please respect copyright.PENANALQopSRHkiG
那樣就是最理想的關係了。
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只是,世事永遠都是當局者迷;675Please respect copyright.PENANARwHTOirIeI
要怨恨對方前,不妨先去檢討一下自己,想深一些,其實對方並沒有欠你的。
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