書籍:《教出殺人犯》岡本茂樹803Please respect copyright.PENANAU0ut7mQ529
一本很體現到日本文化對日本人有多束縛的書。803Please respect copyright.PENANANBrcQP9vCt
犯人一直強調(無論是交給作者課業,又或是教代機構強迫寫的悔過書)「給某某添麻煩真我很抱歉。」803Please respect copyright.PENANAWmSM68FJFd
「添麻煩」、「抱歉」等字眼不斷又不斷在不同人的口中出現,彷佛在說: 所有問題都只是我一個人的問題。803Please respect copyright.PENANAth1Aq3ueBQ
這要有多壓抑?803Please respect copyright.PENANA5EyXAaHjGM
當然,人犯罪了,必須要負上法律責任,問題肯定有!但並不應該只由他一個人去承擔。803Please respect copyright.PENANADzq1jVUMa3
解決犯罪問題要從何入手?803Please respect copyright.PENANAL99n5BIvbu
刑罰?法律?更新處理?教育? 803Please respect copyright.PENANAX4tDHjQ5Q4
解決犯罪問題只可以針對犯人?803Please respect copyright.PENANAWk6BfbEQMg
還是作為家長、教育者、普通人都應該都要有自覺一言一行足以推一個孩子入深淵,也可以救一個孩子出地獄。803Please respect copyright.PENANAIfSpJHAL5C
責任不單單只在一環。803Please respect copyright.PENANAUxe6cvl3ky
畢竟,當需求長年被忽視;803Please respect copyright.PENANA6zKRndSPcq
當一次又一次的要求只換來更強力的壓止;803Please respect copyright.PENANAJqM2Kjok4W
當解鈴人務求紮出個心儀的形態,瞎眼耳聾心又盲到快要勒死人也看不見⋯⋯ 803Please respect copyright.PENANA4RcwX36sN5
反抗是必然的,求生求存是萬物本能,只是各人方法有差異。803Please respect copyright.PENANAwlDmzME7qh
書裡強調「聆聽」,聆聽他人,最重要聆聽自己來釋放壓抑。803Please respect copyright.PENANAZSXFeWAwuO
但事實只有聆聽足夠嗎?803Please respect copyright.PENANA38jJ6WbmZ2
本來沒人理會的我得到你聆聽真的很感激!感謝你撥冗為我心煩。 這樣的心態能保持多久? 803Please respect copyright.PENANALdqOSvFuCg
一刻?一年?半輩子?803Please respect copyright.PENANAhKadADXItn
當你發現聆聽止於聽,甚至有時人只是左耳聽過,語句完封不動交給右耳,這樣的聽能安慰得到痛苦嗎?803Please respect copyright.PENANAFljZgCGGOC
聆聽是一門學問,需要消化,需要分析。803Please respect copyright.PENANAVX9DUElzuR
顯然它也是一種能力,不是人人具備的能力。803Please respect copyright.PENANA6zBQ2H8bvl
不過無論你有沒有這能力也好,聆聽只能幫你抓住了問題的癥結,而回應才是解決問題的關鍵。 803Please respect copyright.PENANAzgeso7lKQG
P.S.日本人壓力真的很大,大得足以養成各式隱形變態。803Please respect copyright.PENANAyBFF1Xqqer