書籍:《教出殺人犯》岡本茂樹745Please respect copyright.PENANAjV0RgeJidx
一本很體現到日本文化對日本人有多束縛的書。745Please respect copyright.PENANAIYmOLlz2ZE
犯人一直強調(無論是交給作者課業,又或是教代機構強迫寫的悔過書)「給某某添麻煩真我很抱歉。」745Please respect copyright.PENANAHlfLdo0cwY
「添麻煩」、「抱歉」等字眼不斷又不斷在不同人的口中出現,彷佛在說: 所有問題都只是我一個人的問題。745Please respect copyright.PENANADnbZVycOL9
這要有多壓抑?745Please respect copyright.PENANAzvdGKptdX5
當然,人犯罪了,必須要負上法律責任,問題肯定有!但並不應該只由他一個人去承擔。745Please respect copyright.PENANAfp3xX4MoA2
解決犯罪問題要從何入手?745Please respect copyright.PENANAfQaX3LOnOY
刑罰?法律?更新處理?教育? 745Please respect copyright.PENANAPvhFSvLu2v
解決犯罪問題只可以針對犯人?745Please respect copyright.PENANAG7OHLrv5DE
還是作為家長、教育者、普通人都應該都要有自覺一言一行足以推一個孩子入深淵,也可以救一個孩子出地獄。745Please respect copyright.PENANA6ZzJUoznZV
責任不單單只在一環。745Please respect copyright.PENANASIFpkmdyBf
畢竟,當需求長年被忽視;745Please respect copyright.PENANA3LauAEIlkX
當一次又一次的要求只換來更強力的壓止;745Please respect copyright.PENANA6Y7G0pLiXf
當解鈴人務求紮出個心儀的形態,瞎眼耳聾心又盲到快要勒死人也看不見⋯⋯ 745Please respect copyright.PENANABQhxPAJSGc
反抗是必然的,求生求存是萬物本能,只是各人方法有差異。745Please respect copyright.PENANAGevCM7mANT
書裡強調「聆聽」,聆聽他人,最重要聆聽自己來釋放壓抑。745Please respect copyright.PENANAfIF6Ylrj56
但事實只有聆聽足夠嗎?745Please respect copyright.PENANARVZFxq2R8V
本來沒人理會的我得到你聆聽真的很感激!感謝你撥冗為我心煩。 這樣的心態能保持多久? 745Please respect copyright.PENANAvTdZZvXOKC
一刻?一年?半輩子?745Please respect copyright.PENANASanEiBNJHD
當你發現聆聽止於聽,甚至有時人只是左耳聽過,語句完封不動交給右耳,這樣的聽能安慰得到痛苦嗎?745Please respect copyright.PENANA9NHUCYR5rs
聆聽是一門學問,需要消化,需要分析。745Please respect copyright.PENANAXi2QtQzUlD
顯然它也是一種能力,不是人人具備的能力。745Please respect copyright.PENANAp5643UpHaJ
不過無論你有沒有這能力也好,聆聽只能幫你抓住了問題的癥結,而回應才是解決問題的關鍵。 745Please respect copyright.PENANAkxiEk6Ap59
P.S.日本人壓力真的很大,大得足以養成各式隱形變態。745Please respect copyright.PENANAwSXoWX6ZW9