書籍:《教出殺人犯》岡本茂樹764Please respect copyright.PENANAVQ9Zv9Rr5V
一本很體現到日本文化對日本人有多束縛的書。764Please respect copyright.PENANADyY0InUckd
犯人一直強調(無論是交給作者課業,又或是教代機構強迫寫的悔過書)「給某某添麻煩真我很抱歉。」764Please respect copyright.PENANA8hoshe1K5Z
「添麻煩」、「抱歉」等字眼不斷又不斷在不同人的口中出現,彷佛在說: 所有問題都只是我一個人的問題。764Please respect copyright.PENANAe3bhkUYAKK
這要有多壓抑?764Please respect copyright.PENANAcIxaLHIU3i
當然,人犯罪了,必須要負上法律責任,問題肯定有!但並不應該只由他一個人去承擔。764Please respect copyright.PENANAGJ2EoPR8kY
解決犯罪問題要從何入手?764Please respect copyright.PENANA3rzMBHcf5K
刑罰?法律?更新處理?教育? 764Please respect copyright.PENANAWkcdiI1bZb
解決犯罪問題只可以針對犯人?764Please respect copyright.PENANAy23UVQyY59
還是作為家長、教育者、普通人都應該都要有自覺一言一行足以推一個孩子入深淵,也可以救一個孩子出地獄。764Please respect copyright.PENANABxavN6sPVX
責任不單單只在一環。764Please respect copyright.PENANAcx3vXEURwO
畢竟,當需求長年被忽視;764Please respect copyright.PENANApzRGMCwq59
當一次又一次的要求只換來更強力的壓止;764Please respect copyright.PENANAQZbZ4DhesT
當解鈴人務求紮出個心儀的形態,瞎眼耳聾心又盲到快要勒死人也看不見⋯⋯ 764Please respect copyright.PENANAtKFn1LXc11
反抗是必然的,求生求存是萬物本能,只是各人方法有差異。764Please respect copyright.PENANAv3x9s6NTam
書裡強調「聆聽」,聆聽他人,最重要聆聽自己來釋放壓抑。764Please respect copyright.PENANA7jHVm1zKUG
但事實只有聆聽足夠嗎?764Please respect copyright.PENANAJoRdaUywMm
本來沒人理會的我得到你聆聽真的很感激!感謝你撥冗為我心煩。 這樣的心態能保持多久? 764Please respect copyright.PENANAhao3Frmj3i
一刻?一年?半輩子?764Please respect copyright.PENANA6EMDJ7dNG5
當你發現聆聽止於聽,甚至有時人只是左耳聽過,語句完封不動交給右耳,這樣的聽能安慰得到痛苦嗎?764Please respect copyright.PENANABYV5td7Wp6
聆聽是一門學問,需要消化,需要分析。764Please respect copyright.PENANATgof4ZJ5eM
顯然它也是一種能力,不是人人具備的能力。764Please respect copyright.PENANAmI6eX3kVtp
不過無論你有沒有這能力也好,聆聽只能幫你抓住了問題的癥結,而回應才是解決問題的關鍵。 764Please respect copyright.PENANApj3OmRPZ49
P.S.日本人壓力真的很大,大得足以養成各式隱形變態。764Please respect copyright.PENANATnhIHp5YZd