真的,「好的吵架」確實挺不錯。小至能認清對方的好與不好、性格優點與缺點、他的底線的規限;大至能從而令關係變得更好,令雙方進步,除了感情外,還有的是自己本身。291Please respect copyright.PENANABSWCgftxdQ
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那到底吵架一題,又何解要分上與下呢?因為在打文章時,我想到其實吵架並非只有「好」與「壞」的,還有另一種吵架,額外的,另類的,看似惡塵不染,但實際上是有着舉足輕重的作用,一但輕視,甚至會令關係隨時決裂,可怕。291Please respect copyright.PENANA0tH4aQOVGq
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這吵架,我為它起了個名字—「隱形的吵架」。291Please respect copyright.PENANAoXZ4tBUBBe
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它的確實定義是,當其中一方做了一件令你不滿意、令你傷感、令你反感、令你憤怒的事,你沒有立即去單向地責罵他,也没有立即雙向地,心平氣和的與他好好溝通,你反而把種種的不滿、不忿、無奈、悲傷的情感……通通都壓抑在心裏,最深層的「心」處。291Please respect copyright.PENANAsnuJpyxwLs
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這種吵架,我覺得還比「壞的吵架」更壞。至少,「壞的吵架」能説出你的心底話,能讓對方知道你到底在想甚麼。縱然有機會吵至分手,但至少能讓對方有機會去好好「改善」一下,總好過神不知鬼不覺地就一句分手收場。俗語點説就是「死左都唔知咩事」。291Please respect copyright.PENANAK2yIWPeE7m
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因為不停的抑壓,壓抑,只會令關係猶如一條堅固的一條繩子,被一透的火無間斷地燃燒着同一位置,總會有斷的一天,亦如厝火積薪無異,那把「火」總會有一天把所有東西都燒光。291Please respect copyright.PENANARDlmPkHJdS
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固此,這還比壞的吵架壞多了,一直的收藏,只會換來隨時的決裂。291Please respect copyright.PENANAm9M2rxe1wZ
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女孩不滿男孩太多異性,但卻將此心聲一直埋藏在心中,甚至有時因為此事而哭泣,抵受着想説又不能説的痛楚。一天,男後察覺到女孩最近經常沉默不語,問了:「寶貝,怎麽了,你不快樂嗎?」291Please respect copyright.PENANAgDqWzChdDj
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女孩忍不住説:「其實,我覺得……」女孩想把一直以來的心聲都説出,但卻因怕影響關係,最後欲言又止,臉上強擠出了一個笑容:「沒甚麼事。」291Please respect copyright.PENANAMr6Rq3EgIv
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你説,這樣,真的好嗎?291Please respect copyright.PENANA2XmU3jJdab
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補充一句,若他是愛你的,又怎會因你的一句少少的「不滿」,而影響關係呢?好好想清楚吧。