「你值得一個更好的人。」302Please respect copyright.PENANATECD5X9K77
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「同你一齊太耐,我哋之間太多問題。」302Please respect copyright.PENANAGsGBHmEpaU
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「我已經淡左了。」302Please respect copyright.PENANAMxRz0O4cwo
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「你好好,係我配你唔起。」302Please respect copyright.PENANA52F57l7Eev
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又或是,一句也沒有説過便轉身離開了。302Please respect copyright.PENANA7JKBgiprvo
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這些,似曾相識嗎?每個人的經歷都各有不同,有的慶幸遇見卻終遺憾收場、有的遇上「衰人」而懷恨至今、有的連開始也没有開始過,就經已落下帷幕。太多太多,我們經歷都各有不同,才造就成一個可能在愛情道路上經已跌碰得滿身傷痕的你,「現在的你」。302Please respect copyright.PENANAEB9dxIzlMk
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曾遺憾收場的變得對愛情更珍惜,更為懂得把握「機會」、因遇上衰人而變得對愛情害怕,不敢再主動而變得小心去選擇每段關係、還未開始過的就變得很想去接觸這個「新事物」,充滿好奇。302Please respect copyright.PENANA2XxlfwFJ3b
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固此,每個人的經歷不同,造就每一個人的不同,不論選擇、決定、心態、乃至愛情觀,都不同。302Please respect copyright.PENANAreS6EB9Xbj
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「但我現在不知道該怎做,該等待,該死心,該繼續,該決斷……我不知道。」女孩雙手插入髪根地説着。302Please respect copyright.PENANA4ZbUEUtBJ0
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倘若你刻下有關愛情的決定充滿疑惑,不知到底如何是好,而你的好姊妹,好兄弟,甚或樹洞的意見,與你本身內在「已存在的想法」截然不同的話……那該怎辦?302Please respect copyright.PENANAXyzLzR6lC0
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可能你想繼續去等待,但你的姊妹告訴你——「死心吧,他不會愛你的」;可能你想忍痛地死心,但你的兄弟告訴着你——「還有機會的,去追吧」;可能你想犯賤留戀,但你的樹洞告訴着你——「别為一棵樹而放棄整個森林」。302Please respect copyright.PENANAGS5RyMBOyc
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誠然,「已存在的想法」確實存在,你不會對某件事,某個人完全沒有想法,完全沒有感覺。或許這想法只是並不強烈,繼而令你迷惘地去「諮詢意見」,然後好好衡量較多意見取向的那方。試想像一下,當你聽了他人的意見時,你是否會質疑他的說法,會反駁他的理由,並為自己身旁的那個他找尋一個個的藉口而去為他「辯護」?302Please respect copyright.PENANA6nzNG43rJj
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「他不是這樣的,他平日也對我很好的。」女孩反駁着朋友的說法。302Please respect copyright.PENANAaIScmAX72Z
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「佢對你又會出軌?好心你醒下啦。」朋友再三勸告。302Please respect copyright.PENANAglpgV7StFc
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「不是的……他……他不是這樣的人。」女生支吾以對。302Please respect copyright.PENANAa7ziIONSJ7
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這不過是其中一例,但你會清晰看到,女孩「本身已存在的想法」。你說,若不是持「不同意見」,你又為何會質疑他人呢?你又為何會反駁他人呢?這顯然易見的。302Please respect copyright.PENANAdkhgn7pflB
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然而,你總會遇上「有更多相同意見的一方」,你會糾結。始終,若不是「正確」的話,為什麼其他人都會跟你說出同一個說法呢?若你是糾結的話,那請你跟着「較多意見」的一方去選擇吧。只因糾結,即是你還有「一點兒是清醒」的,還請你好好清醒過來。相反,若你只是依舊的「不知道怎樣做」,那……302Please respect copyright.PENANAgC6SSxntze
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我能堅決地回你一句——「你本身的取態便是最好的了。」302Please respect copyright.PENANAlCNLvwde7N
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你對現在那戀情迷惘嗎?那你就想一想,該繼續,還是放棄,該捉緊,還是放手。對,用你的經歷,去回答自己。302Please respect copyright.PENANAvXAXdBexp2
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你,真的不知道嗎?或是,只是不想面對你那「答案」而己呢?302Please respect copyright.PENANALCx2aDtIf1
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當然,你還是可以問我意見呢,嘻。我會盡量嘗試用你不敢面對的答案,去告訴你的。302Please respect copyright.PENANAGoWrVeh91y
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「但我很怕會做錯決定。」女孩低着頭説。302Please respect copyright.PENANA1B3ntO8Sfq
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那……有誰沒有做錯過決定?一帆風順的道路,再沒有風風雨雨,再沒有跌跌碰碰,那又怎會造就「現在的你」呢?就算,自己決定過後,最後亦只是後悔收場,最後亦只是分手離場,那又如何?至少,這個的經歷,後悔的經歷,分手的經歷,是你自己的經歷……只屬於自己的經歷。這才能能造就成「將來的你」,「更好的你」。302Please respect copyright.PENANASv6WkeqUnt
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——造就成一個有經歷的你。302Please respect copyright.PENANAkBN7I1Ya3h
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不用怕因做錯決定而浪費時間,始終……你還有很多很多的時間可以去浪費呢。有的是青春,有的是歲月的青澀。正因曾經錯過,才會懂得珍惜;正因曾經犯賤,才會懂得狠心;正因曾經受傷,才會懂愛自己。302Please respect copyright.PENANArBdqQFLBC9
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那……你的決定是?302Please respect copyright.PENANAWKajbNsRBD