真的，「好的吵架」確實挺不錯。小至能認清對方的好與不好、性格優點與缺點、他的底線的規限；大至能從而令關係變得更好，令雙方進步，除了感情外，還有的是自己本身。303Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡKl26YWAAxR
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那到底吵架一題，又何解要分上與下呢？因為在打文章時，我想到其實吵架並非只有「好」與「壞」的，還有另一種吵架，額外的，另類的，看似惡塵不染，但實際上是有着舉足輕重的作用，一但輕視，甚至會令關係隨時決裂，可怕。303Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡtSZsNHzqtz
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這吵架，我為它起了個名字—「隱形的吵架」。303Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡS49tuGZ5jo
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它的確實定義是，當其中一方做了一件令你不滿意、令你傷感、令你反感、令你憤怒的事，你沒有立即去單向地責罵他，也没有立即雙向地，心平氣和的與他好好溝通，你反而把種種的不滿、不忿、無奈、悲傷的情感……通通都壓抑在心裏，最深層的「心」處。303Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ20MWmwviYP
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這種吵架，我覺得還比「壞的吵架」更壞。至少，「壞的吵架」能説出你的心底話，能讓對方知道你到底在想甚麼。縱然有機會吵至分手，但至少能讓對方有機會去好好「改善」一下，總好過神不知鬼不覺地就一句分手收場。俗語點説就是「死左都唔知咩事」。303Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡj4S8pbCMBt
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因為不停的抑壓，壓抑，只會令關係猶如一條堅固的一條繩子，被一透的火無間斷地燃燒着同一位置，總會有斷的一天，亦如厝火積薪無異，那把「火」總會有一天把所有東西都燒光。303Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡjKBryzXMMg
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固此，這還比壞的吵架壞多了，一直的收藏，只會換來隨時的決裂。303Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡgoMmmQo6RS
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女孩不滿男孩太多異性，但卻將此心聲一直埋藏在心中，甚至有時因為此事而哭泣，抵受着想説又不能説的痛楚。一天，男後察覺到女孩最近經常沉默不語，問了：「寶貝，怎麽了，你不快樂嗎？」303Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡU3thYjmzZA
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女孩忍不住説：「其實，我覺得……」女孩想把一直以來的心聲都説出，但卻因怕影響關係，最後欲言又止，臉上強擠出了一個笑容：「沒甚麼事。」303Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡEGXqnijGgF
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你説，這樣，真的好嗎？303Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ0jmYaKm5EO
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補充一句，若他是愛你的，又怎會因你的一句少少的「不滿」，而影響關係呢？好好想清楚吧。
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