can we just talk about how it seems like every other story on here is some cringeworthy mafia romance, if you could even call it that, about some innocent "good girl" who's always portrayed as so weak and stupid and helpless, and how some big hulking moody dude with a "dark past" who's a literal gang member that does drugs and sexually assaults women, and who's also violent, aggressive, and low key just a terrible person is supposed to be super sexy and manly or some shit. it's honestly not okay. it's sexist and toxic and fucking stupid.