Dear You Who Said "It's Okay" Too Many Times,
#TheSearchForLove
You thought love meant endurance.50Please respect copyright.PENANApRPfQj11TB
That to be chosen, you had to tolerate the things that hurt.50Please respect copyright.PENANAAWJpWZFlh0
That staying quiet, staying soft, staying "understanding"50Please respect copyright.PENANAwFmAiTlWop
would make them stay too.
You weren't weak for forgiving them.50Please respect copyright.PENANATT2vk1qDSb
You were just hungry for love.50Please respect copyright.PENANAEoIliKq4or
And they knew it.50Please respect copyright.PENANAL20GrUY5yo
They fed off that hunger,50Please respect copyright.PENANAcMz7o5BiuU
taking more than they ever gave back.
Each time you said "I'm okay,"50Please respect copyright.PENANAhGJExf9dGq
you swallowed a truth that should've been spoken.50Please respect copyright.PENANA4VWuBGOzm7
Each time you forgave without receiving even a hint of remorse,50Please respect copyright.PENANAmUzxfhHKbK
you abandoned a part of yourself50Please respect copyright.PENANAOZcZq56Mc8
just to be seen, just to be kept.
But real love doesn't ask you to bleed50Please respect copyright.PENANAQOcJC6kf7B
to earn someone's warmth.50Please respect copyright.PENANAsbMCqySIie
It doesn't demand your silence50Please respect copyright.PENANAZRDV38eObE
just to keep the peace.
You weren't dramatic.50Please respect copyright.PENANAuE3MGuoGJ7
You weren't too much.50Please respect copyright.PENANAMWXw93AmmG
You were just a girl who wanted to be loved the right way50Please respect copyright.PENANAtyMzWyhsK3
but didn't yet know what the right way looked like.
Let me tell you now:50Please respect copyright.PENANAPT6YWCt6LP
Love doesn't make you choose between being respected50Please respect copyright.PENANAw2sMJykkGM
and being held.50Please respect copyright.PENANAPSpOQFZlKu
It doesn't turn your softness into a weapon against you.50Please respect copyright.PENANAKljQq1NU36
It doesn't make you feel guilty for hurting.
You can forgive, yes—50Please respect copyright.PENANAW84j5QI1oO
but not at the cost of losing yourself.
The girl who kept giving chances...50Please respect copyright.PENANA7D66Qg1ON2
She didn't fail.50Please respect copyright.PENANA5UBvCNOe5s
She just hadn't learned yet50Please respect copyright.PENANA6PfE31bPR4
that being loved shouldn't feel like begging.
I see you.50Please respect copyright.PENANAp4ySOMrxV6
And I want you to know—50Please respect copyright.PENANAMQ3VTMxMBn
you never had to try that hard to be worthy.
You always were.
With all the love you deserved back then,50Please respect copyright.PENANAS6MwLRy5qa
—From the version of you who finally learned what love really means
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