Dear You Who Said "It's Okay" Too Many Times,
#TheSearchForLove
You thought love meant endurance.44Please respect copyright.PENANAde7aXISFoD
That to be chosen, you had to tolerate the things that hurt.44Please respect copyright.PENANAR0lteSsu1m
That staying quiet, staying soft, staying "understanding"44Please respect copyright.PENANAf6lk4byX9c
would make them stay too.
You weren't weak for forgiving them.44Please respect copyright.PENANAnE4uhhO01i
You were just hungry for love.44Please respect copyright.PENANAZPZCwcPOzG
And they knew it.44Please respect copyright.PENANAFPKPJAmA7w
They fed off that hunger,44Please respect copyright.PENANAD001gRLDjb
taking more than they ever gave back.
Each time you said "I'm okay,"44Please respect copyright.PENANAV2iBwdcw9W
you swallowed a truth that should've been spoken.44Please respect copyright.PENANAY9c30NT9gi
Each time you forgave without receiving even a hint of remorse,44Please respect copyright.PENANAnG66tZ4mXF
you abandoned a part of yourself44Please respect copyright.PENANAucTn2FnEcl
just to be seen, just to be kept.
But real love doesn't ask you to bleed44Please respect copyright.PENANADQJRvQQBDR
to earn someone's warmth.44Please respect copyright.PENANAxYF66FIVHE
It doesn't demand your silence44Please respect copyright.PENANAZDqlVIYLZs
just to keep the peace.
You weren't dramatic.44Please respect copyright.PENANAabk5BMTyUp
You weren't too much.44Please respect copyright.PENANAxkMqxRIJ1A
You were just a girl who wanted to be loved the right way44Please respect copyright.PENANAEhxxBblM1m
but didn't yet know what the right way looked like.
Let me tell you now:44Please respect copyright.PENANAu4y9MqjVeh
Love doesn't make you choose between being respected44Please respect copyright.PENANAjniao7aI32
and being held.44Please respect copyright.PENANAo3uNcvNVRV
It doesn't turn your softness into a weapon against you.44Please respect copyright.PENANAjW2zMn1vqO
It doesn't make you feel guilty for hurting.
You can forgive, yes—44Please respect copyright.PENANAyuCaOsi4zy
but not at the cost of losing yourself.
The girl who kept giving chances...44Please respect copyright.PENANA9kFbBKWKco
She didn't fail.44Please respect copyright.PENANAHCoQgSIrRi
She just hadn't learned yet44Please respect copyright.PENANAW67nTco62Y
that being loved shouldn't feel like begging.
I see you.44Please respect copyright.PENANAxBId0wxCZU
And I want you to know—44Please respect copyright.PENANARzRgDEObD8
you never had to try that hard to be worthy.
You always were.
With all the love you deserved back then,44Please respect copyright.PENANAigVk4ngRu7
—From the version of you who finally learned what love really means
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