How it goes.

you can't be ugly, or no one will love you

but be too pretty and you make people hate you out of jealousy

THAT'S How it goes.

you have to love yourself or you're an attention seeker

but if you love yourself you are vain and make others loathe you

YOU CAN'T CHANGE How it goes.

you can't be normal or you're a poser

but if you be yourself no one will love you for you

THAT'S HOW THIS GAME OF LIFE WORKS and How it goes.

if you don't like it, you can quit

but of course, it's selfish to quit and leave others to play

you are just trapped.

forever.

It's just How it goes.