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No Plagiarism!qJY0uz8E1XFdbqK8XOysposted on PENANA 獻給各位遭受老一輩毒害的曾經孩子們:8964 copyright protection105PENANAmfkZPaL6Oy 維尼
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我很喜歡生命教育的兩堂課程——自愛與私人空間。8964 copyright protection105PENANA5Kf7vWWDWh 維尼
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自愛,顧名思義就是愛自己。8964 copyright protection105PENANADknqkaQWnH 維尼
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怎麼愛自己呢?8964 copyright protection105PENANATeECAIr3UW 維尼
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就是當別人都不要自己時,我們自己抱著自己,這樣就行了。8964 copyright protection105PENANAq2GX93ZGmj 維尼
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而私人空間就更簡單了。哪怕是和家人住在一起,我們也有分開獨自一人的時候,那就是專屬於我們的私人時間。8964 copyright protection105PENANA7eKEKIHCRu 維尼
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雖然我上面說:私人空間就更簡單了。可,這堂課卻是我們步入社會後才開始學習的。8964 copyright protection105PENANAY8cqZ17ywD 維尼
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這是為什麼?8964 copyright protection105PENANA5N8Tb19Pa1 維尼
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那是因為,我們身處於傳統式教育;反觀西方在孩子獨立這塊早早在幼兒時期就開始培養。8964 copyright protection105PENANA0PWQcqFmT0 維尼
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能怎麼辦?8964 copyright protection105PENANAnTHQLW3H2R 維尼
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我想:我們只能摸索出屬於自己的一條路。8964 copyright protection105PENANAHqFBcHCw0Y 維尼
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成年前,沒有父母教育,學習管道不是學校就是自學——而這,成了,由我們獨自解題的人生作業。8964 copyright protection105PENANAvAoSTOiEG3 維尼
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說得殘酷一點:我們不是在學習如何成為一個「更好的人」,而是在學習怎麼從「被傷害過的人」中重建自己。8964 copyright protection105PENANAjZUoabeCcL 維尼
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你說,8964 copyright protection105PENANA5IudOnkluw 維尼
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這是不是太早熟了?8964 copyright protection105PENANAOn6HmChOSf 維尼
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是不是太過於沉重了?8964 copyright protection105PENANAThcm3v6pBq 維尼
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對我們根本公平?8964 copyright protection105PENANArob63Isodh 維尼
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是啊,但我們沒得選擇。8964 copyright protection105PENANAanK1Z8vRJc 維尼
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我們這一代的孩子,有太多人把「懂事」當作生存本能,把「獨立」變成後天能力。8964 copyright protection105PENANAwcoXf7bfzY 維尼
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我們不習慣伸手求救,不是因為獨立自主,而是經過次次被無視了求救信號。才逐漸明白,結果只會是求救無門。8964 copyright protection105PENANAQL63FPwrRm 維尼
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倘若你能夠看見這些問題,就證明你正在從創傷中走出來。8964 copyright protection105PENANA40mHK1RiRc 維尼
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我們不是天生冷淡,8964 copyright protection105PENANAntm4Zt0PqG 維尼
是學會把敏感藏起。8964 copyright protection105PENANATQ67KWJCeh 維尼
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我們不是不會自愛,8964 copyright protection105PENANAuvosX2o3de 維尼
是現實迫使沒法愛。8964 copyright protection105PENANAFgqryy6jdo 維尼
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學會自愛,遠不是隨意喊一喊口號那麼簡單。8964 copyright protection105PENANAfUd2CdCR8G 維尼
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而是在被否定的時候,仍願意相信——我值得被喜歡,我可以活得自在。8964 copyright protection105PENANADL3zUwDd8u 維尼
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不會一天就學會,可能要用上幾個月、幾年,甚至是一輩子去尋找這作業的答案。8964 copyright protection105PENANAjY1AhTcAu5 維尼
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但沒關係,這是我們各自的人生課程,不是要被人打上批改分數的考卷。8964 copyright protection105PENANAIB0snaTOLI 維尼
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對此,我想送你一句話:8964 copyright protection105PENANA1VNxiCErXL 維尼
「真正的自愛,是在沒有掌聲的日子裡,仍然對自己心存溫柔。」8964 copyright protection105PENANAzYEUV1gxIc 維尼
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你一直都在努力,我看見了。8964 copyright protection105PENANA9LpNSKccDo 維尼
我看出了,你一直都很勇敢。8964 copyright protection105PENANAz7ANJYrdvM 維尼
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在沒人教你怎麼愛自己的年代裡,你依舊選擇活下來,所以你比你以為的樣子還棒。8964 copyright protection105PENANAkzuEo2jO0a 維尼
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