
十一、分岔 (序)82Please respect copyright.PENANACfacJwPmDb
作家鄭梓靈在《自你以後學懂了誰值得》裡,82Please respect copyright.PENANAm0lWVYgPxq
對「出軌」兩字有以下的解讀:82Please respect copyright.PENANAZ5tzlUJfpb
「明明有很好的另一半,還想出軌的原因,82Please respect copyright.PENANAYvf4CjY9sM
以為自己可以分成兩個人、一個是真實人生 (Real life),82Please respect copyright.PENANAhcIZUykWMl
一個是幻想人生 (Fantasy life),以為是平行時空、互不抵觸。
她其後提到要經營一段關係必需要:82Please respect copyright.PENANAUMAss20VCJ
「有甜有苦,有種人只想要甜,82Please respect copyright.PENANAqnkd94Pd66
半分苦頭也不想要」82Please respect copyright.PENANAzogyJPaKHE
覺得這樣的人很悲哀。
但是,82Please respect copyright.PENANA2PGrHLD0dL
這作者恐怕不知道,82Please respect copyright.PENANAEGriZKt83P
經營戀愛關係好像近年成行成市的「兩餸飯」店一樣。82Please respect copyright.PENANAYptjAsvgcS
款式特多、價廉物美,消費者按自己的食量、可負擔的價格,82Please respect copyright.PENANAyXD4s1TnlX
去決定究竟選擇「兩餸」、「三餸」或者「四餸」。82Please respect copyright.PENANA0fAjWHxE2j
82Please respect copyright.PENANAP0YMOe1Jaf
一個正在食「三餸飯」的顧客,82Please respect copyright.PENANAmh6c5LFmGK
又有多少個人會在意那些只叫「兩餸飯」的客人?82Please respect copyright.PENANA2oPkRZFZJh
又或者,82Please respect copyright.PENANAGlgDnP5u2c
坐在茶記裡享受單單一款小菜的客人,82Please respect copyright.PENANAI5N2uWJDSR
又有多少個會站在道德高地批判那些食多過一款餸菜的客人?82Please respect copyright.PENANAdQqvLGVIKi
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而且,82Please respect copyright.PENANAt6pJvqafwP
要達成「只想要甜、半分苦頭不想要」的目標很簡單,82Please respect copyright.PENANAV3tM8JzGZT
揀餸時選擇蕃茄炒蛋、糖醋骨或者菠蘿咕嚕肉便可以。82Please respect copyright.PENANAsfU4SAhCDX
叫足這「三個餸」的話,82Please respect copyright.PENANANpJOxCTYdM
總份量一定會比「兩個餸」少,82Please respect copyright.PENANAQ2WboHgSyZ
當然消費者亦可以私下要求「夾多啲」。82Please respect copyright.PENANAZE1iOPUbXH
不論是「只叫一個餸」、「叫兩個餸」或者「叫三個餸」,82Please respect copyright.PENANAMboIDZXKP5
消費者總是有選擇權,不會有抵觸的問題。82Please respect copyright.PENANAAnPZXkVXiG
82Please respect copyright.PENANA7h42KDqWxt
悲哀?從何說起?
「出軌」的前設是本來只有一條沒有任何分岔口的路軌,82Please respect copyright.PENANAl6xLF7q25i
你只能依循路徑在上面行走。82Please respect copyright.PENANAn6J2xZ3ShX
但,82Please respect copyright.PENANAcXQvjHEFAX
如果路軌上有多條分支「岔口」不斷來往其他路軌,82Please respect copyright.PENANAvBpibf14Tn
當去到某個分岔口後返回原有路軌的話,82Please respect copyright.PENANAeGdFPUBRyD
某程度上列車根本無出過軌。82Please respect copyright.PENANA3CJrrKAeGB
82Please respect copyright.PENANAhGexZm5hyy
「走岔」Vs 「出軌」,82Please respect copyright.PENANAFHnSZHiDRI
是兩個完全不同的概念。82Please respect copyright.PENANA09NMcoWgeL
若然用另一個角度解讀「關係」的話,82Please respect copyright.PENANAFumlFZwwAG
一個人本身要有足夠的條件,82Please respect copyright.PENANAUq1oTSPnDV
才可以令到更多的異性愛上自己。82Please respect copyright.PENANARkvjDkZV1l
而能夠與不同的人維持到親密關係,82Please respect copyright.PENANA2JFqvMj2La
本身不是一件容易的事。
蔡裕行早就看得透,82Please respect copyright.PENANAvYmPGkZaON
否則不會搭上了昔日的同學、有夫之婦的葉綺淇。82Please respect copyright.PENANAwpEgsANsfh
他很清楚身體是無法欺騙任何人。82Please respect copyright.PENANA7lWM0uYUds
除了錢,82Please respect copyright.PENANA3ZExiDi72h
葉綺淇無法與「禿頭」丈夫葉永和有進一步關係。
葉綺淇是有「出軌」,82Please respect copyright.PENANADxuOeBnfSY
畢竟她最終的關係都不能重回本來那一條。82Please respect copyright.PENANA2lL0ciQ72Y
但她發現前方已經是挖頭巷,82Please respect copyright.PENANAaukZBBgtH9
再向前走只會是死路一條。
人生的軌跡必定要有分岔口,82Please respect copyright.PENANAJEslAoosKg
感情更加要預留空間。82Please respect copyright.PENANAOk0LNfiFq9
82Please respect copyright.PENANAzot3ic6Vtl
《愛情來過半分鐘也沒有》82Please respect copyright.PENANAEeopIHfDNx
戀愛心理,第十一回。82Please respect copyright.PENANAY0FVtLoxie