
十一、分岔 (序)77Please respect copyright.PENANA8BfGot3i61
作家鄭梓靈在《自你以後學懂了誰值得》裡,77Please respect copyright.PENANAFcQ4S7PpUk
對「出軌」兩字有以下的解讀:77Please respect copyright.PENANAUkJRAPtEEx
「明明有很好的另一半,還想出軌的原因,77Please respect copyright.PENANApKdv8ROy7B
以為自己可以分成兩個人、一個是真實人生 (Real life),77Please respect copyright.PENANAgTWzSV6ihR
一個是幻想人生 (Fantasy life),以為是平行時空、互不抵觸。
她其後提到要經營一段關係必需要:77Please respect copyright.PENANAyUKqqNsb6O
「有甜有苦,有種人只想要甜,77Please respect copyright.PENANAnKvQk4SyiA
半分苦頭也不想要」77Please respect copyright.PENANACNCETv6YkN
覺得這樣的人很悲哀。
但是,77Please respect copyright.PENANAwIgc2jzZZl
這作者恐怕不知道,77Please respect copyright.PENANAyTYsj4k1yq
經營戀愛關係好像近年成行成市的「兩餸飯」店一樣。77Please respect copyright.PENANAk4e8LfeC56
款式特多、價廉物美,消費者按自己的食量、可負擔的價格,77Please respect copyright.PENANAyok4EpHCSE
去決定究竟選擇「兩餸」、「三餸」或者「四餸」。77Please respect copyright.PENANAIyizYC3snf
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一個正在食「三餸飯」的顧客,77Please respect copyright.PENANAzzuzRwKVH1
又有多少個人會在意那些只叫「兩餸飯」的客人?77Please respect copyright.PENANAUD6JxNbjJT
又或者,77Please respect copyright.PENANA6R9SrNS8Rw
坐在茶記裡享受單單一款小菜的客人,77Please respect copyright.PENANAJWHqNGt6d7
又有多少個會站在道德高地批判那些食多過一款餸菜的客人?77Please respect copyright.PENANAmRg5IpBMKh
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而且,77Please respect copyright.PENANARi2eyfum55
要達成「只想要甜、半分苦頭不想要」的目標很簡單,77Please respect copyright.PENANA2cWOg7U8q7
揀餸時選擇蕃茄炒蛋、糖醋骨或者菠蘿咕嚕肉便可以。77Please respect copyright.PENANAHebkvPNfdY
叫足這「三個餸」的話,77Please respect copyright.PENANAvdJfFgnG0x
總份量一定會比「兩個餸」少,77Please respect copyright.PENANAejCwSO3Icf
當然消費者亦可以私下要求「夾多啲」。77Please respect copyright.PENANAFFwy7b9JVr
不論是「只叫一個餸」、「叫兩個餸」或者「叫三個餸」,77Please respect copyright.PENANAhXRB3eNiDl
消費者總是有選擇權,不會有抵觸的問題。77Please respect copyright.PENANAfKfnRkgSv7
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悲哀?從何說起?
「出軌」的前設是本來只有一條沒有任何分岔口的路軌,77Please respect copyright.PENANALiuZGT4o2Y
你只能依循路徑在上面行走。77Please respect copyright.PENANADM17dgTlTf
但,77Please respect copyright.PENANAWOxgnqMKpE
如果路軌上有多條分支「岔口」不斷來往其他路軌,77Please respect copyright.PENANATDvJEWbVcv
當去到某個分岔口後返回原有路軌的話,77Please respect copyright.PENANAJggsjKKMW2
某程度上列車根本無出過軌。77Please respect copyright.PENANAPO8TyX2T6T
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「走岔」Vs 「出軌」,77Please respect copyright.PENANA69atC4pztr
是兩個完全不同的概念。77Please respect copyright.PENANADtt4gLDmgG
若然用另一個角度解讀「關係」的話,77Please respect copyright.PENANAvxhcizLSeD
一個人本身要有足夠的條件,77Please respect copyright.PENANANnxevxEAZE
才可以令到更多的異性愛上自己。77Please respect copyright.PENANAEQIdIucFVp
而能夠與不同的人維持到親密關係,77Please respect copyright.PENANAAY3lXVrjVV
本身不是一件容易的事。
蔡裕行早就看得透,77Please respect copyright.PENANAdT4qxCuz4G
否則不會搭上了昔日的同學、有夫之婦的葉綺淇。77Please respect copyright.PENANA9EpoU1ztxc
他很清楚身體是無法欺騙任何人。77Please respect copyright.PENANA3WCftMJnaZ
除了錢,77Please respect copyright.PENANAuVRwwiJrI9
葉綺淇無法與「禿頭」丈夫葉永和有進一步關係。
葉綺淇是有「出軌」,77Please respect copyright.PENANA1lyqDufXMO
畢竟她最終的關係都不能重回本來那一條。77Please respect copyright.PENANAXLs6jtl94b
但她發現前方已經是挖頭巷,77Please respect copyright.PENANAMbJyb2Bntm
再向前走只會是死路一條。
人生的軌跡必定要有分岔口,77Please respect copyright.PENANAdjPC1g7ezy
感情更加要預留空間。77Please respect copyright.PENANAlgNVSVqAct
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《愛情來過半分鐘也沒有》77Please respect copyright.PENANAldKq4YfE87
戀愛心理,第十一回。77Please respect copyright.PENANAVTXlsfK0BH