
十一、分岔 (序)79Please respect copyright.PENANAiLKnhJJRUa
作家鄭梓靈在《自你以後學懂了誰值得》裡,79Please respect copyright.PENANAk34yRo8KSC
對「出軌」兩字有以下的解讀:79Please respect copyright.PENANAZVzmlcV4tE
「明明有很好的另一半,還想出軌的原因,79Please respect copyright.PENANA7a6t7DI95e
以為自己可以分成兩個人、一個是真實人生 (Real life),79Please respect copyright.PENANATcMUdmuSo3
一個是幻想人生 (Fantasy life),以為是平行時空、互不抵觸。
她其後提到要經營一段關係必需要:79Please respect copyright.PENANArzgfwvsCzq
「有甜有苦,有種人只想要甜,79Please respect copyright.PENANAjf4uPDB6TA
半分苦頭也不想要」79Please respect copyright.PENANAKgox3LrUz6
覺得這樣的人很悲哀。
但是,79Please respect copyright.PENANA2bRJ9F7AeY
這作者恐怕不知道,79Please respect copyright.PENANAQccl4oRWc7
經營戀愛關係好像近年成行成市的「兩餸飯」店一樣。79Please respect copyright.PENANA4s8HuyXBox
款式特多、價廉物美,消費者按自己的食量、可負擔的價格,79Please respect copyright.PENANAQ1ufiBZ0VB
去決定究竟選擇「兩餸」、「三餸」或者「四餸」。79Please respect copyright.PENANAgKCwmifQPC
79Please respect copyright.PENANAqoRWscHMyI
一個正在食「三餸飯」的顧客,79Please respect copyright.PENANA8vCFOaximB
又有多少個人會在意那些只叫「兩餸飯」的客人?79Please respect copyright.PENANA4g7AG99ALS
又或者,79Please respect copyright.PENANAxduLlSf882
坐在茶記裡享受單單一款小菜的客人,79Please respect copyright.PENANAjeeVOqlNQX
又有多少個會站在道德高地批判那些食多過一款餸菜的客人?79Please respect copyright.PENANAEEHmCRojkV
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而且,79Please respect copyright.PENANAfqG8qib7Mi
要達成「只想要甜、半分苦頭不想要」的目標很簡單,79Please respect copyright.PENANAwflzwW9zft
揀餸時選擇蕃茄炒蛋、糖醋骨或者菠蘿咕嚕肉便可以。79Please respect copyright.PENANA447zrEXwbH
叫足這「三個餸」的話,79Please respect copyright.PENANAa5V6zB0sDO
總份量一定會比「兩個餸」少,79Please respect copyright.PENANAv0TAFjwLnI
當然消費者亦可以私下要求「夾多啲」。79Please respect copyright.PENANAjXOQEXuGGg
不論是「只叫一個餸」、「叫兩個餸」或者「叫三個餸」,79Please respect copyright.PENANA07Sovs9t3N
消費者總是有選擇權,不會有抵觸的問題。79Please respect copyright.PENANAp2eiQKEv7u
79Please respect copyright.PENANANObqBPgUK2
悲哀?從何說起?
「出軌」的前設是本來只有一條沒有任何分岔口的路軌,79Please respect copyright.PENANAHeJmKCiJfq
你只能依循路徑在上面行走。79Please respect copyright.PENANAlwYo460IHE
但,79Please respect copyright.PENANAILkfqdbvpD
如果路軌上有多條分支「岔口」不斷來往其他路軌,79Please respect copyright.PENANABCXwr4AhGl
當去到某個分岔口後返回原有路軌的話,79Please respect copyright.PENANAapiGYkEA22
某程度上列車根本無出過軌。79Please respect copyright.PENANA96G4UVilK6
79Please respect copyright.PENANAdp2yzgQqXb
「走岔」Vs 「出軌」,79Please respect copyright.PENANAMzu1jgYrGU
是兩個完全不同的概念。79Please respect copyright.PENANA0ot0RCdYcY
若然用另一個角度解讀「關係」的話,79Please respect copyright.PENANARppinqsCUS
一個人本身要有足夠的條件,79Please respect copyright.PENANA38fhkFZqTv
才可以令到更多的異性愛上自己。79Please respect copyright.PENANAvVjPYCEvCe
而能夠與不同的人維持到親密關係,79Please respect copyright.PENANAHMWB64XRS0
本身不是一件容易的事。
蔡裕行早就看得透,79Please respect copyright.PENANAdAIrt4J6nq
否則不會搭上了昔日的同學、有夫之婦的葉綺淇。79Please respect copyright.PENANAPKjzaZT0he
他很清楚身體是無法欺騙任何人。79Please respect copyright.PENANAtMaeWp86FC
除了錢,79Please respect copyright.PENANAhFtYLLwM1Q
葉綺淇無法與「禿頭」丈夫葉永和有進一步關係。
葉綺淇是有「出軌」,79Please respect copyright.PENANAxCOWq0Sst6
畢竟她最終的關係都不能重回本來那一條。79Please respect copyright.PENANAUr8wlc5a2L
但她發現前方已經是挖頭巷,79Please respect copyright.PENANAIYl9uj8vzD
再向前走只會是死路一條。
人生的軌跡必定要有分岔口,79Please respect copyright.PENANAjRbMkGGkwP
感情更加要預留空間。79Please respect copyright.PENANApcD7z1MHF5
79Please respect copyright.PENANAwXHQ6BRxlM
《愛情來過半分鐘也沒有》79Please respect copyright.PENANAk9oZefsdVZ
戀愛心理,第十一回。79Please respect copyright.PENANAz0tBH3bsDw