
十一、分岔 (序)96Please respect copyright.PENANAE4DgdKND9Y
作家鄭梓靈在《自你以後學懂了誰值得》裡,96Please respect copyright.PENANAFVUmntUAiD
對「出軌」兩字有以下的解讀:96Please respect copyright.PENANAMnwpw8tCED
「明明有很好的另一半,還想出軌的原因,96Please respect copyright.PENANAxzJERTTH0H
以為自己可以分成兩個人、一個是真實人生 (Real life),96Please respect copyright.PENANAuDRX3gQMk6
一個是幻想人生 (Fantasy life),以為是平行時空、互不抵觸。
她其後提到要經營一段關係必需要:96Please respect copyright.PENANAaH6LdJ6ysp
「有甜有苦,有種人只想要甜,96Please respect copyright.PENANAEBS2dJgVrd
半分苦頭也不想要」96Please respect copyright.PENANAlNnwFhuCDq
覺得這樣的人很悲哀。
但是,96Please respect copyright.PENANAQKHPySAiEX
這作者恐怕不知道,96Please respect copyright.PENANAbog0INvRaj
經營戀愛關係好像近年成行成市的「兩餸飯」店一樣。96Please respect copyright.PENANAiEcgvPQLFC
款式特多、價廉物美,消費者按自己的食量、可負擔的價格,96Please respect copyright.PENANABWKYBEHfST
去決定究竟選擇「兩餸」、「三餸」或者「四餸」。96Please respect copyright.PENANAUSoOqJ6GdT
96Please respect copyright.PENANAXEEJbh0r0F
一個正在食「三餸飯」的顧客,96Please respect copyright.PENANAS4HCSgDnN3
又有多少個人會在意那些只叫「兩餸飯」的客人?96Please respect copyright.PENANA4Blq9cfCe1
又或者,96Please respect copyright.PENANAoiVALXItfq
坐在茶記裡享受單單一款小菜的客人,96Please respect copyright.PENANAEkub6tF1mX
又有多少個會站在道德高地批判那些食多過一款餸菜的客人?96Please respect copyright.PENANAVEEzMJ2ASo
96Please respect copyright.PENANAa8VJdKCdwt
而且,96Please respect copyright.PENANA6wuE7kIxpc
要達成「只想要甜、半分苦頭不想要」的目標很簡單,96Please respect copyright.PENANA7PiohUrIdg
揀餸時選擇蕃茄炒蛋、糖醋骨或者菠蘿咕嚕肉便可以。96Please respect copyright.PENANABz6qtRp5BK
叫足這「三個餸」的話,96Please respect copyright.PENANAyap0aFLpnA
總份量一定會比「兩個餸」少,96Please respect copyright.PENANATRlXRPCPp6
當然消費者亦可以私下要求「夾多啲」。96Please respect copyright.PENANAoyCduoZ51p
不論是「只叫一個餸」、「叫兩個餸」或者「叫三個餸」,96Please respect copyright.PENANAe9WPjmHdma
消費者總是有選擇權,不會有抵觸的問題。96Please respect copyright.PENANAEMuLEiHzWG
96Please respect copyright.PENANAv1eaGuMId9
悲哀?從何說起?
「出軌」的前設是本來只有一條沒有任何分岔口的路軌,96Please respect copyright.PENANAIo5MEKWCPw
你只能依循路徑在上面行走。96Please respect copyright.PENANA4JUxuYwYPM
但,96Please respect copyright.PENANAYtppKMYEWK
如果路軌上有多條分支「岔口」不斷來往其他路軌,96Please respect copyright.PENANAK5RORjeQtR
當去到某個分岔口後返回原有路軌的話,96Please respect copyright.PENANACm9VP8z06P
某程度上列車根本無出過軌。96Please respect copyright.PENANA0SMaaYWgZf
96Please respect copyright.PENANADaq5Bffk0z
「走岔」Vs 「出軌」,96Please respect copyright.PENANAMbo7DH00Dj
是兩個完全不同的概念。96Please respect copyright.PENANA99sp9VGfCW
若然用另一個角度解讀「關係」的話,96Please respect copyright.PENANArmevrecEzg
一個人本身要有足夠的條件,96Please respect copyright.PENANAQQB8LRfDho
才可以令到更多的異性愛上自己。96Please respect copyright.PENANACNCEfnjdhm
而能夠與不同的人維持到親密關係,96Please respect copyright.PENANAkISUi9HVaH
本身不是一件容易的事。
蔡裕行早就看得透,96Please respect copyright.PENANAtcUgM5fDil
否則不會搭上了昔日的同學、有夫之婦的葉綺淇。96Please respect copyright.PENANAv5iCsaLEMx
他很清楚身體是無法欺騙任何人。96Please respect copyright.PENANA2YAOBzLqen
除了錢,96Please respect copyright.PENANAHddMMh47z7
葉綺淇無法與「禿頭」丈夫葉永和有進一步關係。
葉綺淇是有「出軌」,96Please respect copyright.PENANA5HiZOTLlsS
畢竟她最終的關係都不能重回本來那一條。96Please respect copyright.PENANASEVkMHddwJ
但她發現前方已經是挖頭巷,96Please respect copyright.PENANAXIzfGxLfyr
再向前走只會是死路一條。
人生的軌跡必定要有分岔口,96Please respect copyright.PENANAwec67zsO30
感情更加要預留空間。96Please respect copyright.PENANA0XRPfDTCVs
96Please respect copyright.PENANAX7g4OtPMyV
《愛情來過半分鐘也沒有》96Please respect copyright.PENANAuL1GIbluEg
戀愛心理,第十一回。96Please respect copyright.PENANA3VdQte0K6v