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十一、分岔 (序)81Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡv1yi5Hi9c2
作家鄭梓靈在《自你以後學懂了誰值得》裡，81Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡvUVpaReVxp
對「出軌」兩字有以下的解讀：81Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡdRmVunXSrS
「明明有很好的另一半，還想出軌的原因，81Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ1T97Wq7Vl3
以為自己可以分成兩個人、一個是真實人生 (Real life)，81Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡi5dCZoxSb1
一個是幻想人生 (Fantasy life)，以為是平行時空、互不抵觸。
她其後提到要經營一段關係必需要：81Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡCQCKWTQoo1
「有甜有苦，有種人只想要甜，81Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡifBxMV7jAr
半分苦頭也不想要」81Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ6dGQr6AnDv
覺得這樣的人很悲哀。
但是，81Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡK8Ub9YkENv
這作者恐怕不知道，81Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ7aGAwIRiLN
經營戀愛關係好像近年成行成市的「兩餸飯」店一樣。81Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡdTsLzRsN06
款式特多、價廉物美，消費者按自己的食量、可負擔的價格，81Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡXpH3H1uF2q
去決定究竟選擇「兩餸」、「三餸」或者「四餸」。81Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡqjHT6CsB3S
81Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡf3Qw1WTLBC
一個正在食「三餸飯」的顧客，81Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ4e5mSkPQXB
又有多少個人會在意那些只叫「兩餸飯」的客人？81Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡYAJvZ5Psmo
又或者，81Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡtZbxX4e8H7
坐在茶記裡享受單單一款小菜的客人，81Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡFa2vrlntZr
又有多少個會站在道德高地批判那些食多過一款餸菜的客人？81Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ3TlgQIzzvA
81Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡPyFLPEv9Ok
而且，81Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡEZiWMqddR0
要達成「只想要甜、半分苦頭不想要」的目標很簡單，81Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡWK602sbykb
揀餸時選擇蕃茄炒蛋、糖醋骨或者菠蘿咕嚕肉便可以。81Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡGKFXdLqY2z
叫足這「三個餸」的話，81Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ6iRyKGtWfn
總份量一定會比「兩個餸」少，81Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ7Fa7vjiM0U
當然消費者亦可以私下要求「夾多啲」。81Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ9i6P8TU6QO
不論是「只叫一個餸」、「叫兩個餸」或者「叫三個餸」，81Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ6XkNCfXQ6X
消費者總是有選擇權，不會有抵觸的問題。81Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ5vOa3MDPNf
81Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡyHVYgF3wCM
悲哀？從何說起？
「出軌」的前設是本來只有一條沒有任何分岔口的路軌，81Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡvg3Ddh6Bn2
你只能依循路徑在上面行走。81Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡu9CoZc3uF8
但，81Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡnL8OpDZK8y
如果路軌上有多條分支「岔口」不斷來往其他路軌，81Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡNWaXzHCaoe
當去到某個分岔口後返回原有路軌的話，81Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡD5rYpod3jx
某程度上列車根本無出過軌。81Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡCr4FzTc8M3
81Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡSOggQeWjyx
「走岔」Vs 「出軌」，81Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡt5XVMGO8Z9
是兩個完全不同的概念。81Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡW7k08Ejxy0
若然用另一個角度解讀「關係」的話，81Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡSiOvoA5nLO
一個人本身要有足夠的條件，81Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡScWkZwUPMb
才可以令到更多的異性愛上自己。81Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡnZhtRTo7Xm
而能夠與不同的人維持到親密關係，81Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ7mwuKDDWtN
本身不是一件容易的事。
蔡裕行早就看得透，81Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡyvAG773Lk5
否則不會搭上了昔日的同學、有夫之婦的葉綺淇。81Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡwTEY3FnNG9
他很清楚身體是無法欺騙任何人。81Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡnPJazPgFX5
除了錢，81Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡiK0iOq1SUp
葉綺淇無法與「禿頭」丈夫葉永和有進一步關係。
葉綺淇是有「出軌」，81Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡrBbqE9gGpi
畢竟她最終的關係都不能重回本來那一條。81Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ1tkA8QP3U3
但她發現前方已經是挖頭巷，81Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡtybTlF22fC
再向前走只會是死路一條。
人生的軌跡必定要有分岔口，81Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ0nQh3cIhU5
感情更加要預留空間。81Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡtduoaLSfgQ
81Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡLwCXPsh7Y5
《愛情來過半分鐘也沒有》81Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ4HJIG80CZX
戀愛心理，第十一回。81Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡshehiZkq3K
