自從開學之後,我上線的頻率更加少之又少。836Please respect copyright.PENANAb9lROTWWMy
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以前每天上線,隨後隔兩三天上線,現在則差不多隔一星期才上線,什至你可以形容我已經無心經營自己的Tinder帳號了;就像玩膩了一隻遊戲之後,就任它長期放置著,刪掉它又覺得可惜。836Please respect copyright.PENANA61TqXip529
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畢竟我諗的大學有著「University of Stress and Tension」之名譽;在工程系裡,如果不想爛grade的話,就得加把勁,每天躲到圖書館裡溫習。836Please respect copyright.PENANA6eJV0ESxj0
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這兩個月來,偶爾上線都會match到一些女生,可是我根本無意跟她們發展下去,只是偶爾找人排解自己心中的沉悶。836Please respect copyright.PENANAHqsXvBQoeq
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到了十月尾,既剛好考完mid-term,又是萬聖節期間。考完試的我如放下心中包袱,想放肆一頓。836Please respect copyright.PENANA2PJ3NZLwhP
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心血來潮的我,再次湧現出玩交友app的想法,整個人好像疲累過後充滿了電能,休息過後回滿了HP。836Please respect copyright.PENANAVrZuiEv0zM
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我又回歸到當初下載Tinder時的那份初衷,抱著好奇心和信心去使用交友app。836Please respect copyright.PENANAV4FB0yrFLA
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雖然我明知道交友app裡面男多女少,一個女生能隨時被幾百人追求;男生佔下風,女生佔上風;整個遊戲都是不平衡的,性別不平等的;但為什麼我還在玩呢?836Please respect copyright.PENANAkd4SQG4D5U
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因為,我追求刺激感。跟幾百個男生競爭,是一場刺激的遊戲,在這種遊戲贏了,成就感蠻大的;正如玩遊戲成功闖關後的那種興奮感。至於交不交到女友,就隨緣吧!836Please respect copyright.PENANAugMyLbU53b
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於是,我毅然按進Tinder,重新審視自己的個人檔案,也回想著過去有什麼不足之處;說真的,我漸漸意識到Tinder不是個好地方,實在太多約炮和直銷了,跟本沒有多少是真心交友的。836Please respect copyright.PENANAboFzsACZUR
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我把心一橫決定移陣施地,先在Google上搜尋「2021年香港人熱門交友app」,再到app store搜尋交友app。836Please respect copyright.PENANATochBc69cW
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經過瀏覽,思考和分析之後,我決定下載Bumble。836Please respect copyright.PENANA5Z4CAqvVmh
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跟絕大部分的交友app一樣,主要憑著他人相片給你的感覺,去判斷是否願意配對;唯一的不同的是,在這個app裡,即使成功match了,如果女生在24小時內不先對你拋出開場白,是無法啟動聊天室的,亦即你不能跟她聊天;換言之,這個程式的開發員就是只讓女生作主動,因為他們盡量希望女生,能免於受到網上性騷擾的傷害。(有興趣知道Bumble的作業模式請自行Google)836Please respect copyright.PENANA44eioMEayu
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既然是這樣,那麼照道理,Bumble是對男生更加不利的交友app;明知交友app本來就是對男生不利,現在還要選一個完全對男生不利的app,豈不是拿石頭砸自己的腿嗎?836Please respect copyright.PENANAb7dn9hHAme
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等等⋯⋯誰說這樣就必定輸了?836Please respect copyright.PENANA0ISEx8BNfF
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我為追求極限的刺激感,所以才選擇Bumble。836Please respect copyright.PENANAidS1iYnUrY
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女生是用吸的,而不是追的;如果她對你有興趣,無論如何都必定跟你聊天;況且,我已經想好了戰術。836Please respect copyright.PENANAwdf9ydkj6o