臨近萬聖節的那段時期,除了Cathrine之外,我還在Bumble上match上另一個女生——Lia,真是一個既冷門又有趣的英文名字。(我當然懂得這個字怎麼念,只要把「li」和「a」音斬開來念就不難。漢化音是:「里亞」)438Please respect copyright.PENANAiruODN3f6A
438Please respect copyright.PENANAD2k5CBWKef
Lia:有冇興趣同我一齊女裝出街呀?😍438Please respect copyright.PENANAHpn5fiti6Q
Lia:同我一齊著lolita服438Please respect copyright.PENANAjZSbqgtnNT
438Please respect copyright.PENANA9jHj26u16X
依Bumble上的老規矩,即使match了還要等到女方主動發起開場白,才能展開聊天室。438Please respect copyright.PENANAZfLiiJeqE9
438Please respect copyright.PENANAe7xRexYoyu
Bumble似乎比起一般的交友app顯得更加女權主義,在這種機制下,什至有人形容:只有女生才有權選擇。438Please respect copyright.PENANAq8hJwLuE7m
438Please respect copyright.PENANAf3ghGSk5k6
不過這對我這個生理上是男生的人來講,絲毫不影響;我完全不把它當成一回事。438Please respect copyright.PENANA3NrYeqx2YL
438Please respect copyright.PENANASnVFcgkL6Q
這個什麼「等待女方主動發起開場白」的機制,我可反而有一點高傲和滿足感。438Please respect copyright.PENANANjC4q4vR86
438Please respect copyright.PENANAjEiR9TqBn5
每當女生主動讚美著我的女裝打扮時,心裡不禁自喜:好耶,又有人欣喜這份藝術了!438Please respect copyright.PENANAxZlbJbpWU7
438Please respect copyright.PENANAbqNLeku5ZG
使用交友app久了,我很清楚自己相對於一般的男生,我說只是相對而已,是不需要動腦筋去想說話,在萬中無一的雄性競爭者之中,討好女生。438Please respect copyright.PENANAk4D9Ngbzff
438Please respect copyright.PENANAXqsilafgZw
因為我知道自己的女裝打扮照,早就引起人的好奇心。人一旦對你有了好奇心,即使對你完全無視他,他也會主動找上你。438Please respect copyright.PENANA73F9LO6S3v
438Please respect copyright.PENANAgJSJU39ckZ
我:我係大姐姐嚟囉wor😂438Please respect copyright.PENANAfikvfVTXJm
我:我太高,carry唔起lolita😂438Please respect copyright.PENANAz1L2ASg2v1
我:你有真係有lolita服?438Please respect copyright.PENANAO9ZpMMiZim
438Please respect copyright.PENANAtTuZyV9NKU
Lia:係呀,不過最近想買下新衫。438Please respect copyright.PENANAkyPyznmHEj
438Please respect copyright.PENANAv6Tzi3t3ji
一如既往,每當match上女生之後,都離不開談論雙方的興趣、學業、工作等等,還有⋯⋯生活瑣事。438Please respect copyright.PENANAr1fmj5P6vo
438Please respect copyright.PENANAEl5Ynvj26B
我:你哋BU係咪好摺㗎?438Please respect copyright.PENANA9SlXbSIxRW
我:我聽講BU有耶蘇睇住,玩嘅風氣正經啲438Please respect copyright.PENANApGtko0HdQX
438Please respect copyright.PENANA04KfpFxy4u
Lia:邊會摺呀?438Please respect copyright.PENANAQ822xkV8QB
Lia:不知勁癲438Please respect copyright.PENANARnpR9nkYRx
438Please respect copyright.PENANA6z50E9wMaq
我:就嚟萬聖節,我間Hall攪鬼屋event,我去咗幫手438Please respect copyright.PENANAHaprhvgP6O
我:拿,send張合照比你睇下先438Please respect copyright.PENANANcdNtBFTjw
438Please respect copyright.PENANAqW86OrLpjy
10月29日,我成為了hall 4鬼屋的工作人員,那晚我打扮成一個女護士,相片中的我是身穿一套白色的護士服,衣服上還有些染血,我還把眼睛打扮得像是腫了起來,節日氣氛可謂十足。438Please respect copyright.PENANAChYHdsvtzn
438Please respect copyright.PENANAoiIjemm0Uw
Lia:你又真係扮得勁似女仔wor😂438Please respect copyright.PENANAniunG3TH3c
Lia:個look係幾正,不過你個妝有啲唔係好襯到你套衫。438Please respect copyright.PENANADzJxOqfYtG
438Please respect copyright.PENANAM4dhGdD0CA
我:其實Halloween個妝係好易攪,隨便整個樣就好嚇人😂438Please respect copyright.PENANAJVdMlcwShD
我:我都仲有套女祭司服,想正日攞嚟著。438Please respect copyright.PENANA0jZfWB4i6s
我:到時我會認真返化妝🙈438Please respect copyright.PENANAjlTOEaiyNj
438Please respect copyright.PENANANOsdWT9bgH
整體來講,Lia的回覆速度蠻快的,她是個十分健談的人,感覺她在女生之中,也算是數一數二大方的人,百無禁忌,什麼話題都不忌諱。438Please respect copyright.PENANAEC6jr094Vi
438Please respect copyright.PENANAYyiLlvKjj6
大概就是這樣談了一個星期,好了,差不多是時候該約她出來了。438Please respect copyright.PENANAV8hRQ2rVTW
438Please respect copyright.PENANAJ42AdyA0o3
我:今個星期有冇時間出嚟食嘢?438Please respect copyright.PENANAvhjyG3zlDb
我:可以去cafe店。438Please respect copyright.PENANAXOeuzfWw8C
438Please respect copyright.PENANAFSAIeWJpqg
Lia:好呀,今個星期幾?438Please respect copyright.PENANA13KuYN6cBz
438Please respect copyright.PENANA2KO7bktZ4W
我:星期五啦。438Please respect copyright.PENANA72TISdK9EU
438Please respect copyright.PENANAnontaD4NzK
她答應得蠻爽快,如是這樣過了幾天,就在正日前的兩天,我再確認一次。438Please respect copyright.PENANANajk2aipKI
438Please respect copyright.PENANAsHTNobOX6T
我:後日6點ok嗎?438Please respect copyright.PENANAtT5AeeVuSa
438Please respect copyright.PENANA80KeD6pI3p
Lia:不如再改下個星期啦,我要OT。438Please respect copyright.PENANActQCwSJHqM
438Please respect copyright.PENANAPcGt373jzL
所以說,安排在愈遠時間的約會,不確定性也愈大。438Please respect copyright.PENANAOf5MeE3SzN
438Please respect copyright.PENANAXv52ZhgBUQ
尤其是網上交友,你必須打鐵趁熱,盡快為約會作鋪墊,一旦這名為「新鮮感」的熱鐵冷下了,就再很難令對方拿出熱情來見你。438Please respect copyright.PENANA6YAzGaL9a2
438Please respect copyright.PENANAeEgHQz0J8O
為防一拖再拖,不了了之,我拋下這句:「咁再過兩日又如何?星期日你都day off啦」438Please respect copyright.PENANAyeUVnMUNah