
十一、分岔 (序)113Please respect copyright.PENANAT7eweN8Clw
作家鄭梓靈在《自你以後學懂了誰值得》裡,113Please respect copyright.PENANAs22OQPpjpc
對「出軌」兩字有以下的解讀:113Please respect copyright.PENANAvDY1t1AXZF
「明明有很好的另一半,還想出軌的原因,113Please respect copyright.PENANA2QnMOczLXW
以為自己可以分成兩個人、一個是真實人生 (Real life),113Please respect copyright.PENANAergq6AoXyl
一個是幻想人生 (Fantasy life),以為是平行時空、互不抵觸。
她其後提到要經營一段關係必需要:113Please respect copyright.PENANARTpeq3tkBg
「有甜有苦,有種人只想要甜,113Please respect copyright.PENANAy2K0af9QnG
半分苦頭也不想要」113Please respect copyright.PENANA0Cjrd0sGeS
覺得這樣的人很悲哀。
但是,113Please respect copyright.PENANAG1Gmau63eR
這作者恐怕不知道,113Please respect copyright.PENANA9X6GQsUCzv
經營戀愛關係好像近年成行成市的「兩餸飯」店一樣。113Please respect copyright.PENANApG0tPrWIpN
款式特多、價廉物美,消費者按自己的食量、可負擔的價格,113Please respect copyright.PENANAKuLS933j7j
去決定究竟選擇「兩餸」、「三餸」或者「四餸」。113Please respect copyright.PENANAkn3oADPRSP
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一個正在食「三餸飯」的顧客,113Please respect copyright.PENANA5f9hdAmpj1
又有多少個人會在意那些只叫「兩餸飯」的客人?113Please respect copyright.PENANAu1mFmBk0F0
又或者,113Please respect copyright.PENANAMFNzKzC3Ia
坐在茶記裡享受單單一款小菜的客人,113Please respect copyright.PENANA1cvKkjjwCV
又有多少個會站在道德高地批判那些食多過一款餸菜的客人?113Please respect copyright.PENANASZpMhWhRto
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而且,113Please respect copyright.PENANA4nCnGQHE2m
要達成「只想要甜、半分苦頭不想要」的目標很簡單,113Please respect copyright.PENANACg3u4MP5UB
揀餸時選擇蕃茄炒蛋、糖醋骨或者菠蘿咕嚕肉便可以。113Please respect copyright.PENANAxl3fQbwUk9
叫足這「三個餸」的話,113Please respect copyright.PENANAJEnsnU8N2o
總份量一定會比「兩個餸」少,113Please respect copyright.PENANAtKo0dbcLVG
當然消費者亦可以私下要求「夾多啲」。113Please respect copyright.PENANADQa1gUNRPm
不論是「只叫一個餸」、「叫兩個餸」或者「叫三個餸」,113Please respect copyright.PENANAznGbXMtUCO
消費者總是有選擇權,不會有抵觸的問題。113Please respect copyright.PENANAdldJLEGvop
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悲哀?從何說起?
「出軌」的前設是本來只有一條沒有任何分岔口的路軌,113Please respect copyright.PENANAFvhYQJxQRh
你只能依循路徑在上面行走。113Please respect copyright.PENANAimt6lajzrd
但,113Please respect copyright.PENANAENeDtGXYDi
如果路軌上有多條分支「岔口」不斷來往其他路軌,113Please respect copyright.PENANAkONoZj3QF1
當去到某個分岔口後返回原有路軌的話,113Please respect copyright.PENANAMdzYZX7dQZ
某程度上列車根本無出過軌。113Please respect copyright.PENANAWmIk3mqqEQ
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「走岔」Vs 「出軌」,113Please respect copyright.PENANAeXFVrbkx42
是兩個完全不同的概念。113Please respect copyright.PENANAzONcJUw7vn
若然用另一個角度解讀「關係」的話,113Please respect copyright.PENANAml0oPofjhL
一個人本身要有足夠的條件,113Please respect copyright.PENANAhKBgBWg4g6
才可以令到更多的異性愛上自己。113Please respect copyright.PENANA7UcTJKX9Pe
而能夠與不同的人維持到親密關係,113Please respect copyright.PENANATtzvFQQkxO
本身不是一件容易的事。
蔡裕行早就看得透,113Please respect copyright.PENANAiQnHJV6tAD
否則不會搭上了昔日的同學、有夫之婦的葉綺淇。113Please respect copyright.PENANAo43IpTxv7p
他很清楚身體是無法欺騙任何人。113Please respect copyright.PENANAZh5AYASg4D
除了錢,113Please respect copyright.PENANAEpSSNSJ9mq
葉綺淇無法與「禿頭」丈夫葉永和有進一步關係。
葉綺淇是有「出軌」,113Please respect copyright.PENANApfYSiWtz0E
畢竟她最終的關係都不能重回本來那一條。113Please respect copyright.PENANAXnwMNH3KKa
但她發現前方已經是挖頭巷,113Please respect copyright.PENANA9Yt6xQMKcC
再向前走只會是死路一條。
人生的軌跡必定要有分岔口,113Please respect copyright.PENANAp71Ebl5kaU
感情更加要預留空間。113Please respect copyright.PENANAOU8YqevbER
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《愛情來過半分鐘也沒有》113Please respect copyright.PENANAUfHfrjq0LB
戀愛心理,第十一回。113Please respect copyright.PENANAcjTZhGWwba