
十一、分岔 (序)78Please respect copyright.PENANAqoRH3BQ9S7
作家鄭梓靈在《自你以後學懂了誰值得》裡,78Please respect copyright.PENANAX0yg9poCMD
對「出軌」兩字有以下的解讀:78Please respect copyright.PENANAsL0J2nVPCA
「明明有很好的另一半,還想出軌的原因,78Please respect copyright.PENANAhm7suZi5BW
以為自己可以分成兩個人、一個是真實人生 (Real life),78Please respect copyright.PENANATJdkE6C396
一個是幻想人生 (Fantasy life),以為是平行時空、互不抵觸。
她其後提到要經營一段關係必需要:78Please respect copyright.PENANAUUJNLOHfMp
「有甜有苦,有種人只想要甜,78Please respect copyright.PENANA7GmehCubsJ
半分苦頭也不想要」78Please respect copyright.PENANAKZ1Tc6qpFy
覺得這樣的人很悲哀。
但是,78Please respect copyright.PENANAxIILTL47vL
這作者恐怕不知道,78Please respect copyright.PENANARgXTMJVLUR
經營戀愛關係好像近年成行成市的「兩餸飯」店一樣。78Please respect copyright.PENANAgFjizhhXZE
款式特多、價廉物美,消費者按自己的食量、可負擔的價格,78Please respect copyright.PENANALbkfG7j96c
去決定究竟選擇「兩餸」、「三餸」或者「四餸」。78Please respect copyright.PENANAXjoaFsrMMb
78Please respect copyright.PENANAMT1LEdj3P0
一個正在食「三餸飯」的顧客,78Please respect copyright.PENANAiL0zZjfPGa
又有多少個人會在意那些只叫「兩餸飯」的客人?78Please respect copyright.PENANAKKMpwztN0U
又或者,78Please respect copyright.PENANAkBLshFhK9p
坐在茶記裡享受單單一款小菜的客人,78Please respect copyright.PENANAea9F2iwzIx
又有多少個會站在道德高地批判那些食多過一款餸菜的客人?78Please respect copyright.PENANAT5X3GPi3Td
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而且,78Please respect copyright.PENANAZU5E0wTKTr
要達成「只想要甜、半分苦頭不想要」的目標很簡單,78Please respect copyright.PENANAmp6G7ea3k2
揀餸時選擇蕃茄炒蛋、糖醋骨或者菠蘿咕嚕肉便可以。78Please respect copyright.PENANACsD4OJ79Nm
叫足這「三個餸」的話,78Please respect copyright.PENANAcFAXG0Xwv5
總份量一定會比「兩個餸」少,78Please respect copyright.PENANAcZIFHjORL0
當然消費者亦可以私下要求「夾多啲」。78Please respect copyright.PENANAmrsE8v1OtS
不論是「只叫一個餸」、「叫兩個餸」或者「叫三個餸」,78Please respect copyright.PENANARyGzHiQEDt
消費者總是有選擇權,不會有抵觸的問題。78Please respect copyright.PENANAC455eY7D9r
78Please respect copyright.PENANASjrvTLyWje
悲哀?從何說起?
「出軌」的前設是本來只有一條沒有任何分岔口的路軌,78Please respect copyright.PENANAw4ZEflyFhh
你只能依循路徑在上面行走。78Please respect copyright.PENANAUo9nZ8qbel
但,78Please respect copyright.PENANAqG9GkmM2cf
如果路軌上有多條分支「岔口」不斷來往其他路軌,78Please respect copyright.PENANAkn0DqE0RJ3
當去到某個分岔口後返回原有路軌的話,78Please respect copyright.PENANAJBzNFHP5yL
某程度上列車根本無出過軌。78Please respect copyright.PENANAUWKS0b0bIZ
78Please respect copyright.PENANAkRqB83AyhT
「走岔」Vs 「出軌」,78Please respect copyright.PENANARCj6bPL1n1
是兩個完全不同的概念。78Please respect copyright.PENANAoSjdhzq6Q7
若然用另一個角度解讀「關係」的話,78Please respect copyright.PENANAtDVXqTlDHv
一個人本身要有足夠的條件,78Please respect copyright.PENANAG7TMZnYgbe
才可以令到更多的異性愛上自己。78Please respect copyright.PENANAn7GdE4bcI7
而能夠與不同的人維持到親密關係,78Please respect copyright.PENANA8NDWmr8jYX
本身不是一件容易的事。
蔡裕行早就看得透,78Please respect copyright.PENANA5lBd59BEgW
否則不會搭上了昔日的同學、有夫之婦的葉綺淇。78Please respect copyright.PENANA8fGxbVo2Fd
他很清楚身體是無法欺騙任何人。78Please respect copyright.PENANAwIod6HoyqO
除了錢,78Please respect copyright.PENANAZERAJqa6HS
葉綺淇無法與「禿頭」丈夫葉永和有進一步關係。
葉綺淇是有「出軌」,78Please respect copyright.PENANA3zwt3MM8j0
畢竟她最終的關係都不能重回本來那一條。78Please respect copyright.PENANAzKTe0SmjJ5
但她發現前方已經是挖頭巷,78Please respect copyright.PENANAfE77krfZtl
再向前走只會是死路一條。
人生的軌跡必定要有分岔口,78Please respect copyright.PENANAoshBXotnAN
感情更加要預留空間。78Please respect copyright.PENANAiVBoamB8Yj
78Please respect copyright.PENANAqLGAd9Qoro
《愛情來過半分鐘也沒有》78Please respect copyright.PENANARvspSzbAB2
戀愛心理,第十一回。78Please respect copyright.PENANAloaVePIS1O