
十一、分岔 (序)116Please respect copyright.PENANAin5jLznhU9
作家鄭梓靈在《自你以後學懂了誰值得》裡,116Please respect copyright.PENANAPhvMW8K6zf
對「出軌」兩字有以下的解讀:116Please respect copyright.PENANABBORaEuIM2
「明明有很好的另一半,還想出軌的原因,116Please respect copyright.PENANA0ncrRN9CWo
以為自己可以分成兩個人、一個是真實人生 (Real life),116Please respect copyright.PENANAndiORTizOc
一個是幻想人生 (Fantasy life),以為是平行時空、互不抵觸。
她其後提到要經營一段關係必需要:116Please respect copyright.PENANAdF1djO1IE6
「有甜有苦,有種人只想要甜,116Please respect copyright.PENANAGyoqUEVnlK
半分苦頭也不想要」116Please respect copyright.PENANA5rPRNWaOyg
覺得這樣的人很悲哀。
但是,116Please respect copyright.PENANAKVOfgrnrov
這作者恐怕不知道,116Please respect copyright.PENANAA6Zz5OZVMT
經營戀愛關係好像近年成行成市的「兩餸飯」店一樣。116Please respect copyright.PENANAMPNtvgvSS4
款式特多、價廉物美,消費者按自己的食量、可負擔的價格,116Please respect copyright.PENANACVp6crg2JT
去決定究竟選擇「兩餸」、「三餸」或者「四餸」。116Please respect copyright.PENANAb3eZB549gN
116Please respect copyright.PENANA59DYjPJmcV
一個正在食「三餸飯」的顧客,116Please respect copyright.PENANAZcaIJxf8k5
又有多少個人會在意那些只叫「兩餸飯」的客人?116Please respect copyright.PENANA7epZwhRthC
又或者,116Please respect copyright.PENANAsg14NAelHZ
坐在茶記裡享受單單一款小菜的客人,116Please respect copyright.PENANAOnVJnIkTxP
又有多少個會站在道德高地批判那些食多過一款餸菜的客人?116Please respect copyright.PENANAZJ5H9GGXVW
116Please respect copyright.PENANAJbDExaVG8C
而且,116Please respect copyright.PENANAIWDCIXSAZY
要達成「只想要甜、半分苦頭不想要」的目標很簡單,116Please respect copyright.PENANAsQU2QwkhSj
揀餸時選擇蕃茄炒蛋、糖醋骨或者菠蘿咕嚕肉便可以。116Please respect copyright.PENANAgur8pPaOR8
叫足這「三個餸」的話,116Please respect copyright.PENANA13jISqDwWM
總份量一定會比「兩個餸」少,116Please respect copyright.PENANAdXNJCDQGCE
當然消費者亦可以私下要求「夾多啲」。116Please respect copyright.PENANAv4NwqnGWZ1
不論是「只叫一個餸」、「叫兩個餸」或者「叫三個餸」,116Please respect copyright.PENANApjF60aPhSa
消費者總是有選擇權,不會有抵觸的問題。116Please respect copyright.PENANAkuJyejEGOu
116Please respect copyright.PENANAGcxvnfR9uW
悲哀?從何說起?
「出軌」的前設是本來只有一條沒有任何分岔口的路軌,116Please respect copyright.PENANAhQ5yIz0yft
你只能依循路徑在上面行走。116Please respect copyright.PENANABITwXuxzmR
但,116Please respect copyright.PENANA4txMtcjJ2e
如果路軌上有多條分支「岔口」不斷來往其他路軌,116Please respect copyright.PENANAN9fIQ057Zi
當去到某個分岔口後返回原有路軌的話,116Please respect copyright.PENANAjpQgnmae8U
某程度上列車根本無出過軌。116Please respect copyright.PENANAcxOMAMX2mx
116Please respect copyright.PENANA6uKMmnPsgt
「走岔」Vs 「出軌」,116Please respect copyright.PENANAn0x7Wv9X7O
是兩個完全不同的概念。116Please respect copyright.PENANA8eetgpOpN9
若然用另一個角度解讀「關係」的話,116Please respect copyright.PENANA2mVavK6n8d
一個人本身要有足夠的條件,116Please respect copyright.PENANAmqd4UCw2Pt
才可以令到更多的異性愛上自己。116Please respect copyright.PENANA7Lq6mZr7bZ
而能夠與不同的人維持到親密關係,116Please respect copyright.PENANAlRXGBIVk42
本身不是一件容易的事。
蔡裕行早就看得透,116Please respect copyright.PENANA5uINRwnspg
否則不會搭上了昔日的同學、有夫之婦的葉綺淇。116Please respect copyright.PENANAPP2j3VVszz
他很清楚身體是無法欺騙任何人。116Please respect copyright.PENANAIXYLJlFlFL
除了錢,116Please respect copyright.PENANA0VjkNaUPR9
葉綺淇無法與「禿頭」丈夫葉永和有進一步關係。
葉綺淇是有「出軌」,116Please respect copyright.PENANAiWSlrlEMSm
畢竟她最終的關係都不能重回本來那一條。116Please respect copyright.PENANAIwuggooCdx
但她發現前方已經是挖頭巷,116Please respect copyright.PENANAM9LFnn2ake
再向前走只會是死路一條。
人生的軌跡必定要有分岔口,116Please respect copyright.PENANAlg5cEa2ZpR
感情更加要預留空間。116Please respect copyright.PENANAu9f4gT2CIM
116Please respect copyright.PENANAbOLefOE8u1
《愛情來過半分鐘也沒有》116Please respect copyright.PENANA0ABhpVS5Gt
戀愛心理,第十一回。116Please respect copyright.PENANAd3x4BOdH14