書籍:《教出殺人犯》岡本茂樹453Please respect copyright.PENANAR9mcJLeQdP
一本很體現到日本文化對日本人有多束縛的書。453Please respect copyright.PENANAPn7imobfON
犯人一直強調(無論是交給作者課業,又或是教代機構強迫寫的悔過書)「給某某添麻煩真我很抱歉。」453Please respect copyright.PENANAsvVApd3XaM
「添麻煩」、「抱歉」等字眼不斷又不斷在不同人的口中出現,彷佛在說: 所有問題都只是我一個人的問題。453Please respect copyright.PENANAWLgpXnrSab
這要有多壓抑?453Please respect copyright.PENANAeAm2mKB52d
當然,人犯罪了,必須要負上法律責任,問題肯定有!但並不應該只由他一個人去承擔。453Please respect copyright.PENANApNmVO8q43o
解決犯罪問題要從何入手?453Please respect copyright.PENANAvRH9WbYo7M
刑罰?法律?更新處理?教育? 453Please respect copyright.PENANAo3rmqHSCmk
解決犯罪問題只可以針對犯人?453Please respect copyright.PENANAJqmht4lbMs
還是作為家長、教育者、普通人都應該都要有自覺一言一行足以推一個孩子入深淵,也可以救一個孩子出地獄。453Please respect copyright.PENANAak8rkJec5f
責任不單單只在一環。453Please respect copyright.PENANASx2FxDtJj4
畢竟,當需求長年被忽視;453Please respect copyright.PENANAqeSTcmnsfl
當一次又一次的要求只換來更強力的壓止;453Please respect copyright.PENANAhLGVA03mHI
當解鈴人務求紮出個心儀的形態,瞎眼耳聾心又盲到快要勒死人也看不見⋯⋯ 453Please respect copyright.PENANAqbE8VDVCxU
反抗是必然的,求生求存是萬物本能,只是各人方法有差異。453Please respect copyright.PENANAJ30M8Q5SxC
書裡強調「聆聽」,聆聽他人,最重要聆聽自己來釋放壓抑。453Please respect copyright.PENANAHUfY0C2U3i
但事實只有聆聽足夠嗎?453Please respect copyright.PENANAgDmHtJGlPh
本來沒人理會的我得到你聆聽真的很感激!感謝你撥冗為我心煩。 這樣的心態能保持多久? 453Please respect copyright.PENANABKLrTdPKNa
一刻?一年?半輩子?453Please respect copyright.PENANAHsYj1GSSQD
當你發現聆聽止於聽,甚至有時人只是左耳聽過,語句完封不動交給右耳,這樣的聽能安慰得到痛苦嗎?453Please respect copyright.PENANAjmsE8TOQs2
聆聽是一門學問,需要消化,需要分析。453Please respect copyright.PENANAOX3nBQUNWI
顯然它也是一種能力,不是人人具備的能力。453Please respect copyright.PENANAHkJAwH787X
不過無論你有沒有這能力也好,聆聽只能幫你抓住了問題的癥結,而回應才是解決問題的關鍵。 453Please respect copyright.PENANAEuv0kWhxw8
P.S.日本人壓力真的很大,大得足以養成各式隱形變態。453Please respect copyright.PENANAoDjVhKP1Ji