If you don't live your life you will live other people's lives. Everyone will tell you how to behave and which decisions to take. Thereby they recommend you do to what they would do from their perspective as they form their view of the world from their experiences. Therefore it does not make much sense to live other people's lives. Stop that by living yours! doing what resonates with you, which has only to make sense to you! No one else has to approve. Listen to your heart and you will rise. You shall rise.